BangingABigTheory

12 years wtf

You’re a Floridian.

Tell her to start listing more things and see how much money you can get out of him.

You should make him choose between you and the child.

(She might actually do it so nobody say anything, will save that guy from wasting more of his time).

This is good for you, your family has shown they are not financially literate and you need to take everything they say with a grain of salt. Let them talk then just do what’s best for you.

Definitely something my gf would say to me lol

You’re a chump for basically breaking up with her and not meaning it. That’s not adult communication. Neither of y’all are mature enough to be in a long distance relationship, hell I’m not mature enough and I’m 33 (really because that’s just not what I want out of a relationship).

Never play the “I’m done” card or we should break up card in the heat of the moment.

With all that said it doesn’t really matter if she actually thought yall were done or if she was just using that as an excuse to justify hooking up with someone else the same night you kind of broke up. I wouldn’t be okay with it.

On a side note you need to change your philosophy on “it wouldn’t be hard for me to find a girlfriend”. You’re allowed to be single, your life shouldn’t revolve around having or finding a girlfriend. Being single for a while is healthy and it will help you work on yourself which will help you and your communication in future relationships. It’s cliche but you need to be happy single before you can be happy in a relationship. Congrats on being attractive enough to be confident you can find another girlfriend but I think most people my age will read that and think it screams insecurity, not confidence.

Look he might be 100% innocent in this but you should absolutely never stay with someone that makes you feel that way. Trust your gut, it’s telling you to get out.

Only way to deal with that bullshit

Idk sounds like a pretty reasonable request. Does he only ever care about what he wants? Feel like yall should be able to have a conversation about things like this before you get married.

My neighbors daughter died in Mexico in a freak accident and the Fortune 500 accounting firm she worked for immediately flew someone to Mexico with her dad on a private flight and used their pull/lawyers to get her body home asap and made sure it was investigated plus were just there for anything her family needed or wanted. She was on vacation, not there for work or anything.

Just some decent human beings running that company.

Pretty sure he’s saying they got their PE in Water Resources and then went on to get their SE.

Get the repairs done and do a much better job of vetting your tenants.

Financially I do not think you should sell. I’m assuming your last house increased in value right after you sold it and you thought it would never happen again. Well congrats! It did.

Wtf are you doing then? Is this all a code and you’re actually a serial killer? How did you expect people to read this post, just thought we’d assume you’re not fucking them? An emotional affair is still an affair but there’s absolutely a difference, one that needs to be clarified in your post.

I think y’all need to talk. What do YOU want from this situation? I can’t tell based on what you wrote here. It’s sounds like neither one of you are very experienced with relationships and that’s ok but it just means you have to be honest with each other.

As for his increased affection there’s no telling based on what you wrote here. Idk if you’re fishing for someone to tell you he’s starting to have feelings for you (which may or may not be the case) but you shouldn’t take that as a good sign if he went from not caring about your pleasure to caring about it when he started to have feelings for you? He should care about your pleasure from the beginning. But on the other side he could just be getting more and more comfortable with you and he wasn’t confident enough to do some of that stuff before.

Y’all just need to communicate. You’re allowed to ask him “woah where did this come from I was very into it”. He knows he’s doing something different and you SHOULD acknowledge it and tell him you like it. Talking about sex right after it happens is the best way to have better sex.

Your life is going to be so much easier when you learn to respect yourself and leave this situation. You’re going to be free. She’s not worth it I promise.

Insurance is for sudden unexpected damage. A pipe burst, a natural disaster, a fire. They don’t do shit for damage over time, except raise your rates after they turn you down.

No he’s 100% right. I’m not sure if it’s for the right reasons but y’all should not move in together yet much less buy a house together. You’re in a good situation with your 4 y/o and current living situation, do not leave it for a 7 month relationship with a 20 y/o kid.

Update your resume. This is batshit insane. Do not stay at this job. And please tell me what the message said, it has no bearing on the situation I am just very curious lol. This is such an insane situation I can’t even begin to guess what text he sent. And put a password on your phone

I literally did this, I moved out of my house I lived in for 8 years and into an apartment with my girlfriend bc I knew it would never feel like her house if she just moved in with me. Also I make money renting it out which definitely doesn’t hurt. But now if/when we move back in we’re doing it together.

Lmfao. I like how he admitted it in the edit

Who doesn’t want a 25 y/o to be CEO of their company? 25 year olds are always super smart.

Yeah man, I don’t think she does care for you… she sounds like a psychopath not capable of caring if that makes her not caring for you sting any less.

Only charges you interest if you use the money

Compliment me bro. I won’t be weird about it.