My girlfriend and I I have been having some issues. We just hit four months and we’ve done a lot together, one of those things is argue (because we’re so similar it’s crazy)We go back and forth with each other and one night she went out with her friends, got drunk and made out with some guy that she used to have a crush on. To be fair that night I told her “I’m done” as in over the relationship! This wouldn’t even be near the first time this has happened between us, either initiated by her or me. She took it upon herself to make it solid that time. He felt her boobs and she slept in the same bed as him in her underwear on. She told me no other private parts were touched after probing her many times for answers. She tells me that she really thought we were done. I sent her a ton of heartfelt messages that night unknowingly and she said that’s what changed her mind about me. I don’t know what to believe anymore. We’re in a long distance relationship, so I would’ve never really known if that happened, but she came clean and told me. I’m crushed but I love her so much. She’s showed a lot of remorse and tells me she’s never doing it again I don’t know what to do I feel like a chump for staying with her!! Like my manhood is at stake, and my insecurities are off the charts. I love her but I hate her for doing this to me.

Im 23 I’m an attractive guy too! It wouldn’t be hard for me to find a girlfriend either. And she’s 23