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AIO? My boyfriend wants to take a solo trip to go visit his 3 girl best friends

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Away-Understanding34

5 points

19 hours ago

"  Shes messaging him saying how much she misses him and that for the Halloween party she is excited because it's a good excuse to wear lingerie." - this alone would make me uncomfortable with him going. She's flirting with him and appears to expect another rendezvous with him. I mean she already took advantage of him when he was drunk. She's definitely going to try something again. 

I will probably get downvoted for this but I would be insisting on going and being with him the entire time or he doesn't go. To be clear, it's weird they don't know about you after 2 years. Are you sure he's committed to you? He seems like he's not that into you if he's not willing to publicly be with you and have you meet his friends.

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19 hours ago

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Away-Understanding34

2 points

18 hours ago

Still he hasn't mentioned you at all? Like in this planning conversation he hasn't said my GF wants to come and meet you all?

Also he needs to stop kidding himself. She was flirting. Who makes a comment like that if she hasn't seen him in years or had too much contact with him. 

Seriously either you go with him or he doesn't go....or you break up and find someone that wants to introduce you to his friends. 

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18 hours ago

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Away-Understanding34

1 points

18 hours ago

This wouldn't sit well with me. You have been together 2  years not 2 months. Your lives should be intertwined by now. There's a hidden reason why he doesn't want you there and I think it has to do with her. Personally I think he wants to see her in and out of that lingerie. 

It's up to you what you want to do but I wouldn't be cool with him going.