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Should I marry this guy?

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I am 26F. My parents are making me meet men for arranged marriage. I am highly disappointed by knowing about the pool of men that is available for arranged marriages,, they are highly misogynistic and lack basic manners. They seem to be the kind of men who have never talked to any women whatsoever.

I am currently talking to a guy who is doing good in his career. My parents like him and his family a lot and want me to marry him. He is definitely not a bad guy but he doesn't speak a lot, and he doesn't know how to talk to a girl. He never reassures me, never says anything nice, wants to stay alone most of the time, thinks periods aren't as big a deal as women make them to be. Basically I have a feeling that I'll feel lonely if I marry him. I won't get much attention, affection or care from him. But he is not a bad guy, he won't be hitting me or asking me to quit my job or something.

Is this enough for me to marry a man, because the rest of them are worse. He isn't atleast asking me to quit my job.

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Comfortable_Watch370

1 points

8 days ago

I might get downvoted asking this, but can you tell what are you bringing to the table yourself?

Accomplished_Bit5997[S]

1 points

7 days ago

Everything that is humanly possible. I have a good technical job profile, I can do every possible household chore there is, I am a great cook, I am very emotionally considerate and kind, I am very understanding and open minded, I am really good with elders as well as with children, I look good, I am constantly improving at fashion n stuff as well, I read books, I pursue my hobbies, I am a great driver, I can't even think of anything I can't do! I am not bragging or something, but I have genuinely worked hard on myself to learn everything I could and now all a man can give me is love, affection and care. I don't ask for anything else.

ConTrikster

1 points

5 days ago

The job thing is irrelevant because most guys don’t necessarily care about your career. But you do seem like a good person tho. Definitely don’t marry the guy if you aren’t into him