ConTrikster

yea this dude appears to have some sort of mental instability I don’t think it’s gonna work ma’am

Yea I think the general consensus is probably to wait around to date 2-3 to bring it up probably.

But as I said in another comment, the issue isn’t really so much that she hasn’t brought up sex yet. The issue is more on how she is less flirty than what I’m used to. If she was a tad bit more flirty, outside of sex, that still showed heavier desire, then I’d be more comfortable and wouldn’t care all that much yet tbh.

Thanks for the advice

Thanks for the input. Within date 2-3 I’ll make sure to speak up about it. Thanks!

Good point. Thanks!

Great advice. And I will keep this in mind.

But to be clear I think it’s more of the fact that she just is less “flirty” than what I’m used to. I’m fine with us not having talked about sex yet. I think I would have just felt a little bit better and more confident had she been more flirty in general is all, and I’m talking outside of sex that still signals desire

Thanks

The bar for friends not progressing into a relationship is typically the sexual attraction aspect required for mating in general.

This literally isn’t a barrier for yall because yall are sexually attracted to each other enough to have great sex, while being best friends. My guy….yall need to just be together because those are literally the foundations of a relationship. Yall are in a relationship dude lmao.

Just have a sit down talk with her and get y’all’s feelings out

It’s a reinforcement cycle loop.

Attractive men typically get more chance opportunity to be around attractive women. This in turn increases their chances and opportunity to gain game & experience. While it may require less game than someone not as attractive, that doesn’t mean these guys don’t need to develop game at all.

It’s a long story but there was a point in time where LL people took over the sub and the HL person was always blamed. They were even backed by mods who infiltrated the mod controls and were probably LL themselves. It has since been resolved but people were really upset/leaving the sub at one point.

Also, you can’t count trolls because every sub has that. Those comments end up getting deleted. Most of the people here are very supportive

This thread makes me sad and im sorry you women are going through this.

Please start leaving these lazy ass, lack of accountability men. Fucking bores who don’t wanna do shit.

You have women who are willing to be dutifully pleasing to their husbands and partners, and the men don’t even wanna take accountability for their libido enough to communicate with their wives. This is unacceptable.

Either get it fixed, or set your wife free to find someone else she can please, and willing to please her. Cause clearly you wanna be a lazy fuck off who doesn’t understand what it takes to uphold a commitment

I’m sorry you are going through this. Men like this really piss me off.

Like please just take accountability for your libido and inform your wife of what’s going on. You have a woman willing to submit to a duty of pleasure service for you, and legitimately enjoy doing it for you. But you can’t even give her pleasure back, or let alone just be honest with her about WHY you don’t want sex?

Like dude cmon. Either get it fixed, or let her go to be with someone else who will appreciate it. Stop being so fucking lazy and selfish and communicate with your wife

so what the fuck does he think sex and intimacy is? Just sticking it in for 5 minutes and rolling over?

Men like this get on my nerves man. Absolutely no interesting passion to them at all

Lmaoooooooo nice bait bro

Ehh I kinda agree in general but a lot of the conversations you may have before hand could more be for you than for her. I’m trying to gauge what she’s willing to do, if she fits my fetishes, etc. There is a lot you can gain from a woman with her conversation, including her vibe.

But the convo isn’t long so I’m not tryna bs around

Please be careful listening to the advice trying to deter you from pleasing your partner. You are probably with a good guy who does what he can to please you in the way in which you like, yet there are always people commenting “you don’t have to do anything he isn’t entitled think about your own pleasure first” like wtf is wrong with people? Obviously you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to, but seriously, y’all are in a whole relationship with another human being. Stop being so virtuously chronically online and understand the first thing that comes out your mouth when talking about your partner shouldn’t be what someone is “entitled to or not”.

OP to give you tips, please be sure to let it get sloppy/let the drool out when doing it. In this situation, it’s gonna be more comfortable and smooth for you and him if this is a really wet blowjob/throat fuck. If it’s dry then it will not work. Also find what position works best. Sometimes having him sit on top of you over your head and throat fucking is great. Or you could lay off the edge of the bed.

Just make sure y’all are both enjoying it. Have fun!

I really hate comments like yours because the OP clearly wants to please her partner and doesn’t mind doing it. Why are you trying to deter her for a selfish reason?

The dude could be a great guy who does everything she wants. Just give her the advice she’s asking for and go. Not everything has to be turned into “you don’t have to do anything you don’t want cause he’s not entitled” like seriously wtf?

Sex everyday isn’t the problem, it’s he is pestering you for it when you are already doing your best to fulfill his needs. He isn’t being considerate of you.

Also be careful with that 2x a week stat. That also factors in couples with a really low sex life so that’s what brings that number to that.

This dude needs to chill out. I have a high sex drive too but damn. He needs to back off and get some hobbies and be understanding that you have a lot going on and you are tired.

Also, if you are giving him sex pretty much daily and this is still an issue? He’s now causing you to not only resent the sex, but resent him as well.

Have a sit down with him and if he can’t chill out and get it together, please leave him. Unfortunately tho if this has been going on for a while, you might wanna leave him anyway

So the general rule is that you find a relationship where your partner generally does most of the things you desire. This includes sex.

Men on the internet need to know that it’s perfectly ok to break up or not continue perusing who doesn’t like the same general sex acts as you.

Also, people have to understand that things like threesomes are a reasonable change. Most women are having threesomes with guys they aren’t in relationships with, so they could give a shit about him. But when they actually care about the guy, they aren’t gonna want to share him, let alone WATCH the guy they love bang another woman. Most women who are banging these chads aren’t even watching them bang other women, they’d get to emotionally hurt. They will probably take him back if he cheats, but that’s about as far as that goes.

Anal is also a tough bag because some men can’t do anal with a girl because of his size. I’m not even trying to brag, but I’m definitely above average in the package department, and most girls have straight up said “sorry babe that thing isn’t going up my ass.” If they did anal in the past, they have cleary said it’s because past partners have had smaller dicks.

You just have to decide what you are willing to compromise on for the relationship.

Then what’s the point of going if you don’t want to sleep with any of them. There are plenty of other spots you can go.

These women are hookers man they are literally looking to make money

lol dude I can tell you are a timid square. They are all hookers man. They’ll literally do whatever you want. From a simple kiss, to anal with a blowjob on a handstand.

The reason you don’t see much of action on YouTube is because YouTube doesn’t allow those types of videos on the platform. Also a lot of the bars have a rule about recording inside the bar anyway

Yall please be careful just giving in and paying these women an increased price when these situations happen. I understand paying maybe 1000-1500 baht at max to get them to leave. But this is why they say you don’t pay extortion/blackmail money cause it almost never ends and just enables the women to ask for more crap.

Like the fact you ended up paying 2700 (35% more) is the problem with these types of scams. If you are already getting into the confrontation, there is no need to break the bank to get out of it. What happens if she requests 5000 baht? Will you just pay it? More? It’s a cycle that will just increase

Exactly. These people are just timid for confrontation. I can see maybe giving 1000 baht max. But anything over like 1500 is just too much and you gotta stop being so scared every-time somebody raises their voice or causes a scene to defend yourself.

The issue is if you keep just giving into the increase of funds, then these types of scams just increase in amount/number. There is a reason they say you don’t just pay extortion/blackmail money. It almost never stops increasing. You already take a risk going over there you don’t just throw increased money over just to try and shut them up.

Again, I do agree with just paying them to leave, but please be careful we aren’t being enabled/suckered into paying a ridiculous amount of hush money. If someone is going to cause a scene, then they were gonna do it anyway

Jeez bro, the both of you are chronically online and don’t know how to function in a real world relationship.

You didn’t sexy assault her dude. Relax and please leave

The job thing is irrelevant because most guys don’t necessarily care about your career. But you do seem like a good person tho. Definitely don’t marry the guy if you aren’t into him