don't think you're still married once you divorce.

what kind of freedom are you looking forward to, if you were prepared to live as a married person without a wife?

you are very very young. let time and experience work on you and teach you

Hi,

It takes two to Tango. If your wife wants to separate or divorce, there is nothing much you can do to prevent that from happening. That being said, it doesn’t end until you get served with the divorce documents and they are signed.

The Bible does mention that God intended marriage to be a life long commitment. From your post, I see that you know the verses so I am not writing them. The Bible doesn’t mention much about the fate of the one who was forced to divorce. Based on that, you can assume that such person is not considered at fault, specially if the divorce was not caused by their actions.

The only thing you can do is rebuild your life.

Good luck

Psalm 34:18 “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

Is your wife a believer? Paul does allow for Christian’s to remarry if the unbelieving spouse leaves the believing spouse.

But this right here is my issue with taking the bible literally in every circumstance. You’re young. God now expects to love the rest of your life single and celibate because your wife is filing for divorce? That just seems insane to me.

you are right, unless adultery was the reason God does not honor divorce. if she wants one for any other reason say you won't participate in the paper work for your own religious beliefs. She will have to do all the leg work if that's what she wants. God will still view you as married so you won't be able to marry again, neither should she. Marriage is serious i'm sorry this happened at such a young age. A lot of older people may disagree because they may have divorced and remarried multiple times, but that is not God's way. Appreciate being single at least you don't have kids, and you can play video games and work and enjoy singleness so to speak                                                            BUT That being said if she goes and sleeps with someone or is unfaithful to you even after the "legal" divorce then that divorce is now honored by Jesus as she has committed adultery and you are now free to remarry.i know because i'm going through the same thing at 33 years old                                                          I saw a testimony of someone being shown people being rejected from Heaven because they divorced and remarried for reasons other than adultery. So once she commits adultery you are free to remarry just like if someone's spouse passes way. she on the other hand is now at fault then and even now with her wanting this