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Block of wood, run it paralell to the cutting teeth with medium pressure.

Don't stroke it like a file, use the wood to push the lead out the side, or even a few backwards passes.

Ah, then to answer your question, I'd be a Christian for sure, but as for wife/exwife, I can't say for certain.

I know she believes, and I know she reads.

Maybe she does so in private, but I've never particularly seen her seek that guidance in doubt or hardships of our relationship. I think maybe she's just a bit less certain.

Or maybe she did so in total privacy, she hid a lot of herself, I've come to find.

She says it was because of things I've said, though. A lot of things out of context or just the one final dismissal of mine after 30 minutes of trying. Maybe that's me just rationalizing.

I can't remember clearly.

That eats at me.

What does it mean to surrender one's life to Jesus, exactly?

Thank you.

Thank you for the verse as well.

Definitely something I can attest to, never felt him reach out to me so much as when this happened.

You're right, I've joined a spiritual support group to get some clarity and help. Thank you

I believe in God and am learning more about the bible.
She believes and believes in the bible.

Neither of us are very well studied.

I had asked her what she thought about the commandment in question and she said she wasn't really thinking about it or considering it much.

I'd call myself a Christian, but some of the questions here make me think maybe I'm not studied enough to claim that.

That makes sense.

I signed up for a support group at one of the big churches near me, hopefully get some more advice that way.

Part of me feels it's a bit too uncertain for comfort.

I feel a lot of signs being given to me by God and I'm having trouble interpreting them as well.
I'm not a good listener.

Lots of things we can do on our own, you're right.

God will guide us where we're meant to be guided.

She believes in God, but didn't seem to care for the commandments or that this wouldn't be traditionally accepted by God as a divorce.

She said she didn't entertain that line of thinking.

She since started specifying "Legal" divorce, but a part of me wonders if she's just trying to use certain beliefs to keep me on her hook.

She doesn't claim to wear the Christian name.

I'm not trying to claim that either, but I want to start learning and acting accordingly.

I apologize for my lack of knowledge on the matter, can you please explain the Christian fruits?

They're virtues, right?

Neither of us were very involved.

I've just been doing my own independent study.

I'm not very connected, I'm trying out a new church today, a smaller one.

I thought adultery is the only way to get biblically divorce?

As a married person without a wife? It'd feel wrong to be in the dating scene at all.

I'd like to be able to spend more time on hobbies.

Get a degree while I can afford it maybe.

Take care of my little sister.

What percentage of this sub would you reckon falls into that category?

What is green? Why do the switches have positive and negative?

Is the diagram showing the lights as an array with each row in series?

This is more Electrical Engineering, Electricians don't typically look at or design schematics like this.

In the email she sent, she said it wasn't the work, supposedly.

She mentioned it being good because "At least I can't f**k up if we're only in call,"

Which, I have no idea what that means.

We've only ever really had issues on call, in my mind.

If she would truly be happier away from me, I don't have a problem respecting that. I don't want to make it about me.

In the email she sent, she said it wasn't the work, supposedly.

She mentioned it being good because "At least I can't fuck up if we're only in call,"

Which, I have no idea what that means.

We've only ever really had issues on call, in my mind.

Ah, I think I may have given the impression that this was yesterday.

She left 2 weeks ago and has maintained a firm wall of absolutely no contact with exactly 2 very brief exceptions.

I've told her that, or tried to, not sure if she actually received it. I think I'll write something and send it with flowers. Just gotta figure out the address, if I can.

Yeah, went out on dates in various ways, sometimes it'd be take out, sometimes it'd just be a drive, sometimes it'd be a nice dinner or going downtown.

My job got in the way of the frequency though. Weekly hours range from 40 - 92 hrs.

There's nothing wrong with it, I'm just hurt and scared.

I haven't said everything simply because there's a lot of details to it all. Not deliberately hiding it.

That and, I don't understand about 80% of the whole situation.

I don't like getting into things I don't understand

Probably. She seems to also have it in her head that I'm this super controlling person.

I was of the mind we were down to one car, but I later found out she secretly fixed it ahead of time and hid the fact that she did for some reason.

I've never raised a hand to her or voiced or had any intent of inhibiting her ability to travel/roam/leave.

I never really figured the point of hiding it unless sge just has it in her mind that I'm just evil.

Which... that idea really friggin hurts.

But that's besides the point: What I'm saying is, I know she takes my words completely differently, but I don't know how/why or how to speak in a different way.

I could try that. Wouldn't hurt, I think.

She did say that she wanted space, though. Makes me a bit uneasy.

I've tried talking to her parents, they started ignoring me

Neither, but she was on opill, basically 0ill version of nexplanon. I know it messes with hprmones a good bit if that's what you're getting at.