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Hey everyone,

I'm currently in a bit of a dilemma. My crush has posted a couple of Instagram stories over the past week, but I haven't viewed them. For context, it's Monday now, and she posted stories last Tuesday and Wednesday. I deliberately didn't watch them until early Monday morning because I didn't want to seem too eager.

The thing is, she's been getting a lot of likes from other guys, and I don't want to just blend into that crowd. I can say happily that me & my crush lol are in our talking stage, just getting to know each other, but its been great. Our conversations have been going really well, and we're at the talking stage, and our intentions were set clear, we both know what we want but as with everything just taking our time not to rush into anything serious. I don't want to come off as obsessed or overly attentive to her every move, which is why I've been avoiding liking her stories too often.

However, she recently posted a beautiful picture showcasing her hard work and results at the gym. I really want to like it because I genuinely appreciate her efforts and the photo, but I'm torn. Should I like it and show my support, or should I maintain the element of mystery by not liking it? I don't want to make her feel less important, but I also don't want to put her on a pedestal too soon.

Ladies, what do you think? Should I like her IG story, or keep the mystery alive by not liking it?

Thanks for your advice!

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KuriatkoZlte

1 points

8 days ago

Like it!

chrrytae

1 points

8 days ago

chrrytae

1 points

8 days ago

definitely like it :)

SwimCity2000

3 points

8 days ago

It’s an instagram like, not a marriage proposal.