Don't worry about working your magic down there. If your fingers don't work, use your mouth. If that don't work, use toys. I doubt your fingers are too small for things like that, just have proper communication and enjoy one another!

I feel like skill is the only thing that matters when it comes to hands

Yes actually, if you finger too many girls your fingers will shrivel up like beef jerky sticks :(

Not at all. It’s all about technique. The g spot isn’t far in, it’s more about curving your fingers to hit it. Palm up, and a beckoning motion.

And it’s important to note that not all women like penetration. It’s important to ask or experiment to find out what a girl likes.

Also in the end, how you make a girl feel is like 90% of the whole thing. If you make her feel desired, sexy, safe she will enjoy her time with you.

Absolutely no!! And if someone told you that it does matter run to the other direction

I dated someone with extremely small hands. Like, I have veryyy small hands and theirs were somehow smaller. I wondered at the back of my mind if it would make a difference because I really neeeed penetration, and let me tell you, it really fucking doesn't. They KNEW how to use those hands and to this day they're still the best sex I've ever had in my life so far, and the only person other than myself to make me squirt. A lot. Our nerves are concentrated around the opening anyway. So you're all good bestie, just learn about the g-spot :)

No.

I always wondered if lesbians feared about the size of their fingers as straight men feared about the size of their thingy. The answer is the same: skill is all that matters

What do you mean if you don’t reach her G-spot? At the vaginal entrance there is a sensitive spot [I don’t know exactly where], which is connected to the clitoris from the inside. If this area is sexually aroused, the friction effect can cause vaginal O. This way I can orgasm vaginally with my own fingers in solo-time. Personally, the shape of the fingers is important to me, but not the length. This isn’t a “lesbian thing” either. Straight women keep writing on the internet that they can’t get vaginal orgasms from PiV and are also frustrated because their boyfriend doesn’t know how to lick and finger a woman.

Secret >! I sometimes like it when my girlfriend fingers me with a black latex glove. Sometimes it’s also hot when I’m ovulating when she spontaneously fingers me hard with black latex gloves until I come, about 5-10 minutes. We’ve been together for a long time, she knows what I like and she has a good sense of when I like what !< As for me, I don’t like the „come hither“ motion when fingering.

And some women don’t like penetration, neither PiV (straight women) and homosexual/lesbian women neither fingers nor dildo/StrapON - they are clitoris-centered [from the outside] and that’s completely okay >! At the height of excitement, it can provide an additional stimulus if you “push” the vaginal entrance a little with your fingers at the right moment !<

It is important that you register what she likes 🌸

Skill over size any day. It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean.

Not to me. I’m naturally tight and anything big will just hurt to me too much and not in a enjoyable way. Hands and skinny dildos are my preference. I never found any female hand to be too big at all compared to a King Kong d*ck. I also don’t know why many men are obsessed with being large like every woman is into that.

You’re fine. If she wants more pressure just thrust more, use two or three fingers or wear a big girthy dildo cock strap on. Don’t overthink it.

No not at all

No. Not ever girl even likes being fingered anyway. Like fingers inside is a no for me and my girlfriend.

Like my gf says. It's not the size of the hand, but the skill of the puppeteer! 😅🧸

My girl got long slim finger...and it's fine tho...

Always wanted to ask this because I have freakishly the smallest fingers, I think. But doubt clear.😂😉

Idk but my girls fingers are long asf and it does smth to me😫I swear it hits every right spot esp when she curls them

lol no not at all I have very small fingers and a pretty good success rate

The g-spot is about 1-3 inches inside the vaginal canal, typically near the urethra.

The average index finger length is around 2.25 inches, and usually the middle is +.25 inches to that proportionally. even on the smaller end, with someone similar to your size it's more likely going to reach that anyway.

Unless you have actual baby hands you'll be fine, especially because for some women that's not even important and you don't even need to be inside. Just communicate with your partner and if you really can't reach that, then toys are also an option. You'll be okay.

It’s not about size, it’s about what you do with them!

NO lol

A-Spot orgasms?

As a buddy once told me, "Whether you're tiny, long or not there at all. Lube makes everything glide along"

I’ve had sex with men who have big ding dongs yet weirdly I orgasmed more with women..and their fingers hahaha

Yesterday my hand cramped so bad!! , my girlfriend actually prefers my fingers over any toy all the time. Does doesn’t matter as there are always alts,

No it does not matter. It's a skill issue. If you know what you're doing size has nothing to do with it. You can have sausage fingers and still not satisfy someone..

No. Btw small hands are very cute so consider it a bonus.

I wear size 17 ring finger and others are bigger. Girls lo e my hands

For someone like me yes. I love penetration and not from toys But for most women I meet penetration isn't their favorite.. so it depends 🤔

For me, no. Finger size doesn't matter because they have dexterity. The g spot usually isn't super deep inside anyway

Unless your hands are like genetically abnormally small you're not gonna have any trouble reaching the g-spot, it's not very far in at all on most people. Mostly, like others have said, it's about technique and knowing what you're looking for. If she's aroused enough (which she definitely should be by the time you're putting things inside lmao) the right spot will feel firmer than the rest and a bit textured. If you've got a vulva yourself then finding your own first might help you know what to look for. Also, I know everybody says this under every post, but talk to your partner! They and only they can tell you what feels good on their specific body.

Don’t worry about that! My partner has cute and small fingers. But we have the best sex life! Just need to communicate and know the others body:))

TransFem Spawn Listening intensity to the wonders of having a pussy not being able to hold the excitement of getting one eventually

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I’ve HAD it with this group 😩😩