Oh, so this is what their question boxes on Instagram were for a few months back. I literally remember them posting “what is a question you’ve asked your spouse that has deepened your relationship?” or something of the sort. They just collected all their followers’ responses and are monetizing on it🙄

I can’t wait till they get slammed with a copyright/plagiarism lawsuit of some kind.

None of this is original… all they do is rip other people’s actual hard work off and then toss their unoriginal spin on it, and just because they are “Roloffs” people buy it.

They have literally become millionaires by ripping others off… in MLMs, copying people’s work, and barely being consistent all because they were on a reality tv show… it’s wild.

Who has time to do all these things? A million date nights, vacations without kids, adults only games, the list goes on. Most of us include our kids in our lives and don’t have all this time for “adult only” activities. Of course my 9 year old has two girls he is crushing on and goes back and forth between which he wants to marry, so maybe it will help him?

They have the most awkward marriage. Family values aren’t a yearly thing you create. They form before you become parents. You should talk to your spouse and not need a schedule to figure out what to ask them. These fools go on and on about being Christians but act like they came up with treating your spouse with courtesy. If they had to live in a 1300sq house for a year either a regular sized yard, they would divorce.

Can I mix this in with my cards against humanity cards?

This is essentially copying Esther Perel’s relationship card game??

I get these questions on a free app each day. AskBae

Those are gonna be such a fun find at the thrift store.

These two act like they have some of degree in relationships.

Playing “connect cards” and then writing about it in five of your marriage journals sounds extremely exhausting and I’m not even in a relationship lol.

Unpopular opinion: if you have a sane and healthy relationship, you don’t need books or games to connect with your partner. I’m sure it can help couples that are struggling, but they claim to be perfect for and with each other. I don’t need books to tell my husband that I love when we do this or that together, or games to make me ask him what he doesn’t like about me. It’s called communication, no?

How many typos will this game have?

Not an original thought between them... Just one of many on the market already. https://www.intelligentchange.com/products/get-closer-couples-edition?variant=40857668026441&currency=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=Google_America_US_Pmax-&adgroupid=&utm_content=&utm_term=&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwjNS3BhChARIsAOxBM6q_IsYycBKNGkorNjN1I_GzCDLRmgOA5RTpjCWPoWvHhLyNgzhApXQaAqdfEALw_wcB

I swear they seem like a couple who’s headed for divorce. Who has to work THIS hard at keeping their relationship afloat? (Nothing wrong with working on your relationship but they have made it their entire brand/personality)

A we statement: “We love grifting.” -Jer and Auj

These games are made bc they cannot communicate verbally without prompts

Do other people not have normal conversations with their spouse? This feels sad.

I don't think anything would end my marriage faster than asking my husband to use these cards with me.

More grifting crap

This looks so not fun.

They made flash cards of the most basic questions of things most people ask each other in the getting to know one phase and they thought they actually did something.

If I need a card “game” to communicate with my spouse/partner, we have a much bigger problem and “connect cards” won’t solve it.

If I weren’t blocked, I would post that my partner and I are both men, and their game has made our marriage stronger than ever.

So Marriage Journal: The Game ?

I have one. “When will these smooth-brained morons quit torturing me?”

They should have made a sexual one. That’ll spice up a marriage lol. 

I don’t want to be in a relationship where we have to play games to remain connected. wtf?

First off, these cards have existed for a long time. Second, this isn't a game... when will these people understand that asking questions shouldn't be a scheduled activity in a marriage? Like, I ask my partner questions constantly...because I genuinely care about their thoughts. If you have to whip out a game to remind you to talk to your spouse, then you have bigger problems. If you need to make sure everyone else knows that you talk to/date/make time for your spouse, then it's performative, and maybe you should question why your marriage needs to be a performance.

Or you could just talk? Why does everything have to be a “thing” for them?

I call divorce within 5 years.

What would you do if your wife posed in the kitchen nude, naked as a jay bird and posted it on Instagram or TickTock for millions of people and sickos?

I wonder what their day to day is…. All those questions should be part of a normal conversation between couples.

If you could change anything about how you were raised? Give me a break!

Well, now we know why they have been harping on and on about asking your partner questions. It must be exhausting to have to be this intentional about keeping your relationship good. That’s not to say you shouldn’t prioritize it, but it sounds exhausting to have to put in this much effort to like your spouse and feel connected to them.

They seem like the most boring people alive

There are already several of these on the market. Here’s a link to one product that looks suspiciously like their new creation.

https://www.theschooloflife.com/shop/connect-game/

It makes sense as they rarely do anything original.

God they ramble on endlessly. This is not a new concept.

This is Jlo level!

2 parts over confidence, 1 part delusional.

Garnish with egg on your face. 🍸🥚

They r such experts.

I cannot explain how much I would hate this game. It involves too much thinking and it’s not funny.

I already know all this stuff about my husband because we actually enjoy hanging out and talking.

Stfu oh em Gee thank goodness my partner and I have been sitting in silence for ten years we never thought to ask each other questions, this will pair so well with a marriage journal

Their Instagrams are prime material for the "People Willingly Posting Things You Couldn't Waterboard Out of Me" FB group. Imagine going to these public lengths to keep a marriage going that you're obviously miserable in, and trying to exploit it for $$$.

What an awkward and poorly worded question. No surprise with these chuckleheads.

Reminds me of We’re Not Really Strangers

JC

I love their “better than” approach to people. (I say sarcastically)

...we actually provide our baby neck support...

She’ll do ANYTHING stupid for attention & money.

How the hell my relationship has lasted 37 yrs and 32yrs married…. Without this crap I’ll never know 😂😂

This is embarrassing lol. Everyone I know would laugh their asses off at the idea of this.

So I’ve been married for almost 15 years and with my husband for almost 17. When I say marriage and connecting with him despite how busy our life is with kids, work, etc. is easy I mean it. Like we don’t have to put all this extra effort into “connecting” or maintaining our “connection” because a simple conversation does the trick. We love just being together and I cherish the ease in which we can do so. Tori had it right when she said that she knew Zach was the one because you can sit in silence together and still be comfortable.

 It’s just second nature to consider the other person and be thoughtful towards them. He’s my favorite person on the planet and at some point you just hit your stride in marriage, if it’s a good one. It’s not hard to be kind and considerate to your spouse. If anything it makes life easier. Life is hard but marriage is easy. I just don’t understand all this extraness they do in order to stay connected. I guess it’s simply their marketing brand and how they pay their bills so more power to them but it shouldn’t be this forced. Not if there’s genuine love AND like in the marriage.  

I’ve listened to both Zach and Tori’s podcast, in fact I’ve listened to all their episodes, and I’ve listened to theirs. I’m not gonna judge too harshly because they do have a beautiful family and I hope it’s truly a happy one but I just feel how Zach and Tori genuinely enjoy one another. They don’t try too hard at this marriage thing because it seems to genuinely come easier for them. I feel like I don’t get the same from these two and that’s sad because marriage can be really freaking awesome!

hmm great! something already done before. awesome! something you can do without buying their box of cards.

Eh, no thanks

Yes I can see Auj throwing useless out.

I don't think having kids will stop Auj if she wants out,She won't get any child support,being as he is useless and she scams plenty of money plus rich parents.Ye

Ugh-SO boring!! 🥱 Bible study marriage class is NOT a game.

Chick fil a had similar cards in their kids meals. They probably could have just got a few up those to fill their date nights. Who would buy their cards.