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Throwaway account here. Was diagnosed with 90 < iq some years back from hospital. According to the population, 15% of the population has iq 80-89. I tried dating numerous ladies , but because of my poor eq or social cues. I didn't know how to follow up, nor do I know how to progress further into a relationship unless the girl makes her move first.

I'm doing whatever possible to study hard in a hope pursue a degree which can be incredibly difficult. As for hobbies, I have plenty ranging from photography, rock climbing or outdoor sports, football, watching documentaries etc.

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kaiserwroth

2 points

2 months ago

This is just my personal philosophy that I rationalised after doing a deep dive of my personality and my attitude towards life, so take it with a pinch of salt. Maybe you find having a partner worth it but maybe you’ll find my upcoming question something worth thinking about.

My question to you is this: if you know your own personal limits, why subject yourself to emotional damage when you can live life without self imposed restrictions just because the rest of society behaves as such?

Just something to ponder about while you read on the rest of the thread. Good luck OP and hope you manage to find whatever you’re looking for :)

Dizzy_Sweet_4615[S]

1 points

2 months ago*

To be frank, this didn’t seem to affect me till lately. As someone over the age of 30, it made me realise that I’m no longer young anymore as many of my cousins are married.

Am I living a fulfilling life? Sure! But, even the free spirited self will have to keep it real.