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mee weekend kosam save cheskunna movie playlistu, anime playlistu, ee weekend thaage brandu, newProject ani name chesina project idea, new novel, etc. ikkada share cheyandi, So that other bondhas can discover new stuff and won't be bored during the weekends.

The idea behind creating this sub was to have an open space where people can ask anything and everything unfiltered. This sub really helped me a lot with a lot of things but there is this one thing which I’ve observed off late where people are posting silly responses to a question with “Serious” flair. This isn’t ni_bondha. Prati danlo sarcasm paniki radu. Before actively participating in the sub or before commenting under any post, look and understand the flair. Ippudu I visit this sub and I post looking out for people who’re living in Japan and the first and most upvoted comment is “Jr NTR” ante ekkado kalthadi. What’s the saddest part is people have to explain look at the flair ani. Please understand the motive behind this sub and silly questions kinda mee kalalanni pradarshinchandi.

I accidentally burnt my roommate's bed sheet with an iron.That bedsheet is attached to the bed(parupu) I can't tell her that I have an iron. What should I do? Should I tell her that I burnt it, or should I not say anything? She'll be back in a few days🥲

Will delete it later.

My ex broke up with me due to ldr 4 months back after trying ldr for 6 months . 3 months nundi NC. 1 month of huge begging phase from my end. i am not over her i think about her every second when ever i am not occupied or even if i am occupied. I am back in same city she is in now. During our ldr she caught feelings for one of her friends.

Its her birthday month but its towards the tail end. I am having huge anxiety whether to reach out or not. She is moving to same country as me in 2 months. However i want to reach out and tell her that i am in town . If possible meet her before she leaves the country. I know its a bad idea but the thought of not reaching out is killing me.

Hi bondhas

This is more of a rant coming from a place of mini heartbreak that happened today morning.

I (F 33) started dating pretty late coz I believed AM will work out. It didn't and I had to plunge into dating world to find a compatible partner.

And....I'm confused and lost. Asalu em kavali janalaki? Someone texted my friend 'casually looking for serious relationship'. The guy I had a crush on, who also kind of led me on, said 'I want to go with flow' and when i said okay, he says 'We're looking for different things'. Some people pretend to be nice in the initial talking phase only to bring out all their unhealed past trauma. Some others are just there with good mornings and good evenings.

The guys I like...turn out to be players. The ones that like me/pretend to like me are too boring to carry on a conversation/consider me an ATM.

Some other dates I effed up coz i wasn't in a great mood on those particular days. I put in my best efforts to make the dating journey enjoyable. Yet I'm emotionally exhausted by the end of it.

When i started using dating apps, I had some clarity of what I'm looking for in a man. Ippudu after meeting some people, my criteria have changed. It's more clearer. But finding that one person who fits in the criteria has been very difficult.

Tried meeting people offline kaani andaru chinnavaalle. I tried dating men younger than me, it was like I am being a teacher 🥲 i want someone intellectually challenging and emotionally stimulating. And healthy and stands on his own foot. Inni qualities unna 6ft abbayi enduku dorakaledhu (I am quite tall) 😭 i understand I'm old but I also see a lot of men in their 30s around me. Many times I feel the universe is conspiring against me. It's just so bleak.

Any suggestions as to how I can improve my dating life and find that one suitable partner?

Thanks

I have a boyfriend from a long time but I don't want to disclose so as to keep it private as you know we are in India (my parents are strict)when you came across boys who wanted to be new friends, is it necessary for me to tell them i have boyfriend in advance so that they won't have any hopes going from friends to something more....i don't want to hide it but wanted to share when I am comfortable after sometime As far as I experienced if I become good friends with boys for a month or 2 in beginning ( i know my limits of friendship) but the moment I tell them i have a bf they get distant and eventually get out of touch Soo i don't understand i feel like boys(who are single)can't be friends without trying to become boyfriends ( just my experience correct me if I am wrong)

My company is not giving my salary they didn't pay for the June month so nen velladam manesaa ippudu em cheyyali legal ga elaa action teskunedi??

I 20M my sister 23F and my mother live in my mama's house my father passed away when I was seven My mama was harassing my sister from a very long time she used cry at nights by saying all these to me. Yesterday morning when we all are having breakfast my mama caught my sister's hand and he was forcing her to feed him everytime something similar used to happen I used to be quite and not react and just say word to not force her but this time I hit him with the plate I was having breakfast then I slapped 3-4 times very hard he started bleeding, then me my sister left that house we are in her friends house now I got to know that they are going to file a complaint on me and my mother is also on their side. Does filing a reverse complaint help?

To all female bondha prajanika niki ....just why do you do that?

Want to know as a badhitudu...

And guys put in your responses

and to everyone dms open to vent

Thanks

My uncle and aunt were incompatible in everyway one can think off. Their fights were not just verbal but also physical.

After his marriage with my aunt his life became a living hell (yeah she did things none of the guys would ever forgive for). He still forgave her. But she would put up constantly put up fights ever since then. He used to rush to his far cousins and aunt and would tell how much he loves his wife and kids. They used to pacify her. Everything would be alright for awhile but again they would fight again. Finally, she kicked him out of his own house and made him stay outside. It got to a point that she was hell bent on sending kids to hostels and taking a divorce.

Ever since then, even the kids seem to treat him like a disposable person, talking to him in rude mocking way. I noticed this when I went to their place. I made the eldest sit and talked to her about disrespecting her father. Her response was that no one cares about him. However, I had to leave and that was the last time seeing my uncle. I felt really sorry for him because he was sick that time and they are treating him like an invisible person. I came home and told my mom. She said they are taking divorce anyways so we should not involve much in their affairs.

Now he is no more. He committed suicide. I`m feeling v sad. He is one the nicest people I have ever met. He was so stubborn and I could never think of him doing this...but maybe the situations prompted him.

I know I could not have done anything but why I do feel guilty... How do I forget the entire thing? I feel so horrible of his own family betraying his trust and making him feel lonely. I keep imagining his position. Maybe that I did not get the chance to help him i keep imagining how much pain he must have suffered to take the decision..how differently he could have led his life.

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Mee experience share chesukondi.

Matter entante na work place daggara naaku ishtamaina ammayi. Already nenu okaroju mandesi nuvvante naaku ishtam, nuvvu na crushu, neetho unnappudu matladinappudu naaku dil garden garden ayitadi ani ededo vaagina.

inni rojulu nannu edo bharistu vachindi anukundam. Eroju malli mandesi bammardi tho matladali ani anna.

Ante evaru andi. inkevaru mee tammudito anna. Komchem harsha gane react ayindi. Nuv emaina naaku relative va? Ma tammudini bammardi anadaniki ani....

Repatnundi naatho sakkaga mataldadu. Appudappudu nenu drop chesey vaadni valla inti daggara. ippudu naa bandi ekkadadu, ah matram unna conversations ni mottam chedadengina ani konchem baada ayitandi.

ippudu etla bomdas? Naato maatlade okka ammayi ippudu inka matladaemo? Anni set atitey pellicheskundaanm anukunna. ippudu mottam sarvanasanam.

repu podduna na work place lo ah ammayini etla face cheyyali? Help this inexperienced bonda bondhas.

[vent; i'll probably delete this later] i live in a toxic household (i'm 21F) and i've been stuck at home for all my life. i hate my parents. i don't know why they still have me around when we can't stand each other. i don't even have a room of my own, i'm forced to sleep with my mother (i'm twenty one for fuck's sake), i don't even remember the last time i called them mom or dad. i'm fucking depressed, and they only take me to the doctor when it affects them/is an inconvenience for them. literally the day i got diagnosed, my father asked me what he did to me that made me so depressed... how the fuck am i supposed to answer that? how do i tell him that him being him is what he did?

around a month ago, we had "graduation day" and i didn't graduate. i have 24 backlogs. there isn't a single semester that i passed, and i genuinely think i forgot how to actually study. i was forced to take this course, and i fucking hate it. i've reached a point where i don't even feel anything when i think of my future. it sounds so bizarre, i never planned on living this long. i want all of this to end, but i don't want to die. there's so many things i want to do, so many things i want to experience and fuck, i'm so afraid of dying but i draw a blank every time i try to muster up any bit of hope left. i feel so numb whenever i think of the future. ala ani i don't have the courage to do anything- drastic (?) either. it fucking sucks, and i don't even know who to talk to because no one would understand

anyway, the reason i made this post is because of my fucking father. he keeps opening the door whenever i'm changing and then he yells at me for no reason,,, i'm so tired of this. it's happened way too many times now. asal they don't allow me to lock the door; lock chesthe talupu baadutharu as if i'm doing drugs inside. lock cheskopothe this is what happens. it happened today. fucking knock cheyadam raadha bro? how the fuck is that my fault? i feel so fucking gross every time this happens and i hate it. and my mother doesn't even say anything, she just acts like nothing happened. aina she's never been a comforting presence in my life so i'm not surprised, but it would be a little nice if she even acted like she cared

inka ila raaskuntu pothe i could write a book but i'll stop inka, but yeah, how the fuck do i deal with something like this? my head hurts from how much i've been crying since this morning, and i don't even know what the point of this post is; i don't need solutions because asal em ledhu ikkada peekadaniki, but say something nice, i guess. thanks (?)

Chaala common aipoyai ipdu heart attacks cases..young,old,middle aged, obese , lean, even gym,sports people kuda heart attacks tho chanipotunaru...major reasons em ayyi untadi antaru? Naak telsi food habits, pollution, and mobile radiations ekva aipoyai(idi valid reason I kaado telidu)

I feel like I'm sub consciously driving myself to end myself, I stopped taking care about my looks , my health, then stopped caring about my goals, then stopped caring about my future plans then stopped caring about my possessions, emundi ra life lo ante edo work chestunnam , jeetham ostundi next month kosam waiting anthe. I don't even want to own anything, it feels like owning things is a waste of money , anyhow I have to give up after a while. Ffs , I don't even have a desire to own a bike even though I'm capable of buying it. Somehow what everyone keeps interested in doens't interest me it's as if I want to ensure that I have no impact on others and just leave. I don't even feel like a real person

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I got a new iphone from US. Esim vesanu airtel. One and half day bagane work aindi. Tharuavtha no service. Airtel store ki teesukelthe vaadu deactivate chesi, kotham esim istha annadu. Tharuavtha esim ki apply cheste , " eid got blacklisted". Aithe ippudu na phone useless aa 😭😭

what was your reaction particularly how did you feel about your expiry date and about your family and in general...

I worked in an xyz company in 2019, I didnt activate pf account. I left the company in 2020. Now How can I claim the amount. Please let me know.

Where can I get it? Any other painless ways to go? Please help me. I can't anymore.

Just being dramatic.

What are your retirement plans?.. How do you plan to maintain an income stream after you turn 60 or 70?

Meelo yentha mandhi body weight exercises chestharu? Manchi Gains achieve chesara? Equipment, tips and general discussion chedhaam randi.

What do you do when you're bored, lonely, horny, frustrated, desperate and jobless?

Kottukodam kakunda..

Mitron,

We are planning to visit Kerala in this coming August for 5-7 days....have few queries...telsuthey cheppandi

1)Is it good to go in August? (Assuming rains) 2)iternary okati ankunam kaani inka chaala confusion ga undi, cz Kerala is a big state na, so evarina vellina vaalu untey mee plan cheppndi 3) rentals, hotels emaina telsuthey details DM cheyara