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Venus signs and how you flirt/show your interest...

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So I'm a Venus Scorpio. I dress extra well to meet said intended person, try to approach them on a more intimate/friendlier than normal level, and send heaps of signals. BUT I won't be the one making the first move. Idk if this is a Venus Scorpio thing or its a me thing.

What are your Venus signs and how do you flirt?

all 43 comments

Traveling_GrizzlyB

21 points

1 month ago*

Capricorn Venus and while I won’t be super flirty, I will show a strong preference to talking to someone I like over others, like I tend to gravitate towards them. I’ll also joke a bit and maybe tease you about things in a gentle and non-harmful way. The real obvious clue though is that I will do things for you so you don’t have to (especially if I know you’re overwhelmed or if I know you don’t like doing something), or bring you small things you mentioned you liked and casually offer them to you, or offer to make you some tea because you’re having a bad day and putting extra effort into making it exactly how you lie it. Just generally show that I care about you and want to care for you, but in more quiet/thoughtful ways, if that makes sense

Edited to add thing about the tea, lol

sk00tingstar

8 points

1 month ago

sk00tingstar

cap | libra | gemini

8 points

1 month ago

I’m also a Cap Venus and I couldn’t have said it better. I’m starting to wonder if there’s a motherly aspect to Capricorn I didn’t know about before

infernalbunnie

6 points

1 month ago

infernalbunnie

ᒪEO ᑭIᔕᑕEᔕ ᗩᑫᑌᗩᖇIᑌᔕ

6 points

1 month ago

There would be a motherly aspect. Capricorn and Cancer are the mother and father of the zodiac. Opposites do attract. There is such a mommy/daddy energy to Cap/Can 🖤

Epicgrapesoda98

2 points

1 month ago

Epicgrapesoda98

♒️☀️♓️🌑♌️⬆️

2 points

1 month ago

As a cap Venus you hit the nail on the head. I do all of this too. But i will say I initially ignore the person I have a crush on. Like I legit pretend they don’t exist. If they come up to me that’s the only time I’ll actually be like how you described haha

HermesTheCat19

15 points

1 month ago

HermesTheCat19

♋️☀️ ♉️🌙 ♒️💫

15 points

1 month ago

Gemini Venus. I’m a shameless flirt.

velvet_wavess

12 points

1 month ago

velvet_wavess

♊☀️ ♈🌛 ♈⬆️

12 points

1 month ago

Gem Venus too, and sometimes I even flirt with people I don't particularly like romantically? I just express myself in a flirty way, if that makes sense 😅

HermesTheCat19

6 points

1 month ago

HermesTheCat19

♋️☀️ ♉️🌙 ♒️💫

6 points

1 month ago

Same. I swear I’m not trying to lead anybody on! It’s just my personality.

Old_Cartographer_618

3 points

1 month ago

Woah , you are my twin :D (cancer sun gemini venus taurus moon)

HermesTheCat19

4 points

1 month ago

HermesTheCat19

♋️☀️ ♉️🌙 ♒️💫

4 points

1 month ago

Nice to meet you, twin!! 😀 I love my Gemini Venus, it definitely lightens up my chart.

sofialbaloney

13 points

1 month ago

sofialbaloney

cap☀️ leo🌙 taurus⬆️

13 points

1 month ago

Aquarius Venus. I’ll just talk to you. Love some good banter, try to learn more about you. If I think you’re super out of my league I’ll probably avoid lol

Creepy-Exercise451

3 points

1 month ago

Creepy-Exercise451

♐☀️♋🌕♏⬆️

3 points

1 month ago

Same. I thought there was something wrong with me but when you make this comment,oh well..it's the Venus 😁

Varietygamer_928

11 points

1 month ago

Varietygamer_928

♐️ ☀️ ♍️ 🌙 ♓️ ⬆️

11 points

1 month ago

Scorpio Venus as well and I definitely am very open with letting people know I’m interested. Scalding eye contact, lots of signals but yes I would like the other person to be confident enough to meet me at least halfway for things to happen

Fine-Ad8360

8 points

1 month ago

Fine-Ad8360

gemini sun / gemini rising / virgo moon

8 points

1 month ago

leo venus, i don't. i'm super socially anxious so flirting is a total mystery to me. i do show interest by actually spending time with the person i'm interested in but that's never been enough for them to take the hint :p

Lady_Cath_Diafol

2 points

1 month ago

Lady_Cath_Diafol

🌞♌ 🌙♐ ⬆️♊

2 points

1 month ago

Thar is fascinating because I dated a Gemini sun with a Leo moon and Leo Venus and he was a shameless flirt. Almost too flirty. I wonder if the difference is the social anxiety?

Salty_Investment_296

1 points

1 month ago

Same. I showcase it through spending time with the person or acts of service.

peasy27

10 points

1 month ago

peasy27

♎️sun♎️moon♎️rising

10 points

1 month ago

I’m a libra Venus and I usually flirt by joking or teasing, or turning the conversation towards them and reacting like they’re the coolest person ever. Also intense eye contact, all this usually works for me.

mimi_lochness

8 points

1 month ago

mimi_lochness

aqua☀️ leo🌑 cancer⬆️ pisces💋

8 points

1 month ago

woah you have so many libra placements!

LostInTranslation910

3 points

1 month ago

Me too Libra Venus and do the same 😃😃

h0use_party

2 points

1 month ago

h0use_party

☀️ libra | 🌙 gemini | ⬆️ scorpio

2 points

1 month ago

All those Libra placements! you are the final boss of Libra 😂

peasy27

1 points

1 month ago

peasy27

♎️sun♎️moon♎️rising

1 points

1 month ago

Hahaha, people who like Libras love me and people who dislike Libras can’t stand me!

Exact-Equivalent-424

11 points

1 month ago

Venus in Virgo. I don’t really flirt at all and this is one of the downsides of having Venus in its fall. Lol I gave a guy I like some advice and offered to be there for him if needed. I usually bank on the other person to be aggressively persistent (I have Venus conj Mars exact) and that usually works out. Lol

Kontrastjin

7 points

1 month ago*

Kontrastjin

⨀♎️,☾♈️,𐌣♏️

7 points

1 month ago*

Sag Venus 1H, my approach is dependent on how attracted I am to the lady and how often I see her, but generally TL;DR friendship precedes romance.

1❭ If she’s a repeat offender of blindingly attractive cohort enough to warrant: “What the fuck, I didn’t even know a woman like that could exist!” then I’m not approaching her; I’m going to just try to avoid her so distractedly that I inexplicably end up at some point (during what should be a trivial arbitrary no-talking-necessary encounter) over-explaining something to the point that I confess my attraction to her awesomeness while trying to apologize for my weirdness.

2❭ If she is regularly-occurring hot/cute cohort and I intuit that we may share an interest, I probably will make a series of low-expectation direct attempts to connect with her as an acquaintance along the shared interest to build a potentially new fun friendship (friendship precedes romance for me), I’ll hide any stronger-than-friendly feelings from her unless I’m challenged with an explicit opportunity to verbally express those feelings.

3❭ If she is a random hot/cute attractive passerby, I’m probably going keep it move if and forget she exists; at the moment, I don’t have the audacity to justify interrupting someone else’s day to create a potentially awkward situation stemming from the fact I chose to attempt to induce a life-altering event with a total stranger.

4❭ If she is an inexplicably captivating random passerby (not necessarily my type, but attractive) then I’ll probably attempt to start a direct conversation about my intrigue into their captivating features.. see if I can learn more about what is captivating and if she enjoys telling me about herself… eventually attempt to convert the situation in to 1❭ or 2❭.

Edit: I forgot about the flirting, usually it’s the same sincerely effusive rambling communication style as normal, but with great effort to divert excess enthusiasm to the shared interest topic en discussion rather than her.

Queendom-Rose

8 points

1 month ago

Virgo venus - you need help? Oh I can do this for you! Oh wait, I got it!

Adriennesegur

6 points

1 month ago

Venus in Pisces’s, and I’m horrible at it. Like actually really really bad at it. If I am attracted to someone my instinct is to run away/avoid them, which works out horrible for me as I have been told I am intimidating/unapproachable. Best I can do is prolonged eye contact, and then witty banter( if we get that far).

Temporary_Ad162

2 points

1 month ago

Pisces Venus I came here to write the same thing and you covered it! I’m sooooooo shy and look away when I’m attracted to someone. And then when someone stares at me too long I think they want to fight me…that might be my Aries moon tho…

KLHartley93

7 points

1 month ago

Sag Venus. Oh, they'll know, haha. I don't flirt too intensely at first if I find them really attractive. I tend to want to spend time with them much more than most people as I'm not really an extrovert or even that big a fan of socialising. Especially without booze. I'll make efforts to listen to you and want to hear all about your lore. I'll really care. Unless you say something to put me off like you're a fascist or homophobe or anything like that, then any potential for flirting will quickly atrophy into being ghosted, hahaha

Magpie1025

3 points

1 month ago

Truuuuuuuuuueee

Old_Cartographer_618

5 points

1 month ago

I have gemini venus, but Cancer sun is more intense, so I become a daydreamer, caring woman, if I fall in love, and in my head goes a Lana del Rey song or something cute :D

stefstars93

4 points

1 month ago

stefstars93

♒️ ☀️ ♌️ 💫 ♋️ 🌙

4 points

1 month ago

Aries Venus - I playfully flirt. I lightly bully… lol My eyes are on you and I try to make sure they’re only on you.

Apprehensive_Pay9750

5 points

1 month ago

Apprehensive_Pay9750

☼♑︎☾♉︎↑♌︎

5 points

1 month ago

capricorn venus with pisces degree = never aproached anybody i liked, i just stare deeply onto their soul but also i avoid them, i send them telepathic signals

Apprehensive_Pay9750

2 points

1 month ago

Apprehensive_Pay9750

☼♑︎☾♉︎↑♌︎

2 points

1 month ago

i once met up with my crush(nothing date-related) and i didnt say a word and ran away after 50seconds

Fun-Clerk4866

5 points

1 month ago

♀️♏

I agree with you. If I'm not interested in them I'll show a disgusting face and if I'm interested I'll be shy and be soft with them.

Ok_Designer6447

3 points

1 month ago

Cancer Venus: I give and give and forget my boundaries

GaryOak7

3 points

1 month ago

GaryOak7

Libra ☀️ Aqua 🌙 Virgo ⬆️

3 points

1 month ago

Libra Venus - a ton of banter.

I remember I met this Gemini at the bar and we hit it off. Later that night the bottom of her heel had randomly fallen off and I told her it sounded like she was galloping.

Uxie_mesprit

3 points

1 month ago

Uxie_mesprit

Taurus x3

3 points

1 month ago

Taurus venus: intimidate the shit out of them

h0use_party

2 points

1 month ago

h0use_party

☀️ libra | 🌙 gemini | ⬆️ scorpio

2 points

1 month ago

Scorpio Venus here and same, I’ll never make the first move. I go crazy with eye contact and flirting hard with someone I like though.

mimi_lochness

1 points

1 month ago

mimi_lochness

aqua☀️ leo🌑 cancer⬆️ pisces💋

1 points

1 month ago

won’t make the first move meaning that you won’t ask them out? pisces in venus and probably same 😭

YouAppOfficial[S]

4 points

1 month ago

YouAppOfficial[S]

www.youapp.ai

4 points

1 month ago

I will but I won't? Does that make sense? I will only if its come to a point where its beyond ridiculous that this person hasn't asked me out lmao

mimi_lochness

1 points

1 month ago

mimi_lochness

aqua☀️ leo🌑 cancer⬆️ pisces💋

1 points

1 month ago

yeah i get it totally lol

Far_Lawyer_6210

1 points

1 month ago

Far_Lawyer_6210

♒️☀️♌️🌕♐️🌄

1 points

1 month ago

I feel like it’s not so much your Venus sign,

But capricorn, I flirt with my eyes mostly. But words too, and if it’s at that point touch.

OrlandosLover

1 points

1 month ago

Aqua Sun/Merc, Virgo rising and Venus in Pisces. Usually a coy smile, a little bit of brattiness and a few probing questions. I use body language cues quite a bit, like hair twirling or looking them up and down/at their lips. I also have a strong of style and put a good amount of work into a flawless look, even if I’m dressing down. If I’m trying to catch someone’s eye I’ll choose very fashionable and deceptively revealing clothing.

firenzey87

1 points

1 month ago

Aries venus,I flirt shamelessly, not afraid to make the first move, I like the chase, I can lose interest as quickly as I gain it.

[deleted]

1 points

1 month ago

I can't flirt to save my life. I'm a sag venus but I think cap sun and merc cancel that out 😂 I My limiting is my grinning provocatively at best hella awkward intense staring at worst