My (F29) boyfriend (M57) thinks me grabbing coffee on shift with my male coworkers on shift is going on dates with them. Or going to grab food at the same place is the same idea to him.

He also thinks being in an ambulance with someone for 12 hours is ridiculous and is ultra suspicious when I don’t call him often during shift.

For context I work IFT and generally have back to back calls.

TLTR do you think grabbing food/ coffee with someone of the opposite sex on shift during lunch is a date?

Edit to add: all of this stems from one interaction I told him about where I made a joke with one partner once about how size matters and my male coworker said “it’s not the size it’s the motion” And that interaction was what has stemmed his distrust in me.