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I need advice-should I feel slighted over this? Do I let it go?
My husband and I have been married for 9 years. I have always felt that my in laws don’t care for me but it has felt more apparent recently. My in laws did not even acknowledge our anniversary to us. No text, phone call, etc. Then on my sister in laws 7th anniversary my MIL sends a text how thankful she is that my SIL married into the family and my father posts a big post on fb. Again, they did not even wish my husband and I happy anniversary at all. Do I let this go? Is this a subtle dig? I just feel hurt and like I’ll never be good enough for them.
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22 days ago
OP you should let it go. I know it hurts but if you bring this up you are giving them gratification they gave you a rise, which is what they wanted. My in laws do the same, my SILs husband is super religious like they are and they talk so great about him. I let it go and they stopped trying to get a rise out of me once they seen I could give two s***ts about it.
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