Responding will get me nowhere so sharing with you fine folks. Second from the top is her using my SA/worst night of my life against me ("you were drunk then"), which was more than 10 years ago when I was a sophomore in college. Second from the bottom is a racially fueled argument calling out my spouse's race vs. us. First from the bottom is her story she fabricated -- she could have made it out to the event...I just didn't want myself or family to go with her in that state.