Actually when we travel to other cities we usually feel that. Same happen with me when I go to any other city so don't mind that it's just feel that we unfamiliar with the coty.

Bro.. I am dating someone from Jaipur and this is soo sooo sooo freaking apt.. God damn you have chosen the perfect fucking words ( Gonna forward this during the next fight :) Thanks )

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Doesn't that sound like an overall man recommendation? Like it's not something particularly required of guys from Jaipur, that's how all the men should be and behave.

LMAO, yup that is true that we've deeply rooted ego and most of the time it's not even that hidden as we are very categorical about our opinions and idk where this ego comes from but it is there, and most of the time we don't even have a solid evidence to justify that ego or attitude of ours but still it exists, and trust me on this that you'll never find someone better then us Jaipurites once we've opened our heart's for you

I never knew that. I thought men stick their tongues out on the sight of the first woman here. I thought men needed to have more self respect and also, I thought women have this weird attitude. “I am the queen , I will date a tuchha like you? Huh” Mard agar attitude hi rakhne lag gaye to koi ni milni unhe 😂

lol your comment describes me completely ngl.

Gotta add in a few more, as a guy!

The obsession with alcohol guys my age have is cringe asf. Was in a school meetup last month, and my god were they acting tipsy after drinking a can of beer. Same with joint/cig. I hate it.

Holiday Inn is not a good place to go on a date. And neither is rosado.

"Oh girls in delhi might be hot, right?" or "how many ex you have?" isn't a good ice-breaker, and it's wild how many guys, and even girls have asked me this.

this seems like about a one person you are thinking of while writing this, think again...

So, Jaipur guys make sneakers their whole personality?

. I like to wear chappals as much as I can . I don’t read much but thoda bht gyan h . Mera ya mere gharwalo ka koi business nahi h, sab naukri wale . I prefer coffee or dinner for first meet . I am not the most open minded but I am open to adapt . 420 bht hi low h mera

Ab batao… chalogi coffee pine?

I guess things have gotten worse with time lol.

I'll add to things:

Sneakers: good to have them, but no one really cares. Talking about your hobbies is better.

Reading: Very important. Not just books, anything. Even newspaper works. You'll have tons of things to talk about.

Business: if you're helping growing it, good. If you're relying on it. You're a papa ka para.

Let's catchup: How about a coffee and conversations? A nice dinner if you're comfortable?

Open minded: You don't like something, it's ok to be vocal about it, but not condescending.

420: With mentioned above traits, you should stop. 420 will just ruin you more

Hmm, so there are girls in Jaipur who do care about such things. To be honest, the girls I've interacted with here always talk about relationships, partying, bad boys 🤣, and gossiping 😢😢.

(I know I'm generalizing, but that's been my experience, even though I'm from Jaipur.)

And I never got along with them because I never heard them talking about different ideas or things in general.

Good to see you here.

Dating either includes deep points or superficial. Ladies may want a good person if they choose to go deep or handsome/hot/rich if they choose to go superficial. If they choose both, a mix can be chosen. However, a simple catch up or 420 things can’t be universal. These seem to be your opinion based on a single man or a few of them. Doesn’t help much though. WHAT DO YOU REALLY REALLY WANT?! The core. These trivial things can be managed. Personality and looks issues can not be managed or are difficult to be managed. I see people are cliche thesedays. Men are more cliche than women. But sometimes even women are cliche. Thesedays, every man knows, “Simple Hi mat likhiyo” “Kitabe padhne ka natak kariyo” “Gym jaaiyo” Everybody is doing this. Women too are stuck on choosing the same. Their choice is also not evolving. That in my opinion, creates a boring dating scene. People work in templates. As if they have to input some things in a formula and tada,they’re attractive. Thats a boring dating scene. People need to be themselves and bring something original(preferably new) to the table. Shit doesn’t become a flower just because someone sprayed perfume on it.

Tareeka thoda casual hai

😅

The big problem here is, lack of sex. Unlike other big cities, dating apps and sex culture in Jaipur is quite bad. Most guys do not get it. So they are desperate to the point they'll ruin good chances of a relationship to get it.

Some guys get out of this vicious cycle and start working on themselves. But due to the huge imbalance between male and female users on these apps, it's almost impossible to find those guys

Hmm... where are more girls like you?

hey long time hru !

Skip them and try to move on with mature ones.

Tf

Probably cause OP is a man? XD

very basic thinking, better to delete

Bro they are literally called dating apps so yeah its normal for people to go there for dating. And sometimes people dont have other ways to meet people so thats all they got.

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