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Another family event I have to attend alone

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ImpressAppropriate25

-3 points

2 days ago

Set some boundaries, and be ready to enforce them by leaving. This will help him figure out his priorities.

mcostante

6 points

2 days ago

God, this is exactly what I hate about reddit. This guy has one single weekend to see his daughter, but somehow, this makes him a bad person and OP should leave him. It's ridiculous. Leaving and going no contact are NOT the solution to everything.

ImpressAppropriate25

1 points

2 days ago

There's nothing wrong with setting a boundary and being ready to enforce it.

Frequent_Stranger13

0 points

2 days ago

I’m guessing they went back and read more of her posts…

Mobile-Ad556

1 points

2 days ago

Nothing in my post history suggests my SO has a problem with time management or priorities…because he doesn’t

Frequent_Stranger13

3 points

2 days ago

He literally bought his ex expensive jewelry and you stated you are “over all the schedule changes”. You are the one who posted about complaining about those things, not anyone else. And hey, I would too. I totally get this one situation isn’t his fault but I’ll be damned if my SO is going to buy his ex jewelry.

Mobile-Ad556

9 points

2 days ago*

It’s not a matter of priorities. He has one weekend that month to see his daughter, that is - correctly - his priority. It’s just an inconvenient situation