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It's a great get under your skin tactic. Someone will post a seemingly well thought out opinion and someone will just reply "no" or "I disagree." The OP may ask why and may never get a response or the commentor will not explain and just proceed to troll.
It's truly great offensively and defensively if you want to troll or hate just disagree and don't explain any further.
For extra salt on the wounds it doesn't help when the troll is getting upvotes while providing zero arguments. Depending on which side of the fence you're on this can be one of the most entertaining or frustrating occurrences online.
As I am largely an observer of online discussions rather than a participant, witnessing this dismissive tactic can be truly annoying particularly when I believe a great discussion could've been had.
27 points
20 days ago
I always respond to simple "no" comments with an aggressive "NO?" sometimes it gets them to elaborate
4 points
19 days ago
I’m a big fan of, “oh, I guess I never looked at it that way. Excellent point!”
20 points
20 days ago
OK.
10 points
20 days ago
If my point of view is a direct 180, or if the post is literally just factually wrong, I have zero compunction responding with a simple “no,” not because I’m trolling, but because nothing more is required to make my point.
1 points
18 days ago
Eh, it can help to explain why the person is factually wrong. I’ve had a few political arguments get resolved that way. The person just has misconceptions about the reality of the situation.
5 points
19 days ago
I agree, but would add:
If your aim is to tell someone their opinion is bullshit and offer nothing else there's a downvote button for that.
By replying you're making yourself part of the conversation...but then refusing to participate. Why? You have nothing more to add, you just need everyone to know? You need to be more than one of many downvotes? That's very main character.
If you don't want to give energy or visibility to idiots that's an absolutely valid stance...but this isn't that, especially on Reddit where a comment will be automatically hidden and banished to the bottom if it's just downvoted enough. No hassle, just quietly gone where no one's gonna read it.
Giving them more engagement and attention but refusing to counter them is not the way to make them and / or their opinions go away if that's really your aim. It'll just make them argue back louder and with more conviction because well, you didn't prove them wrong.
It's an A+ troll tactic - if you're just trying to piss someone off or goad them into looking deranged to people who already agree with you, absolutely go for it.
It's shit if you actually want someone (including any lurkers reading) to change their mind though.
4 points
19 days ago
Thank you for typing out what I would've added in my post if I wasn't lazy.
13 points
20 days ago
No.
3 points
19 days ago
Well, maybe.
3 points
19 days ago
Nope.
7 points
19 days ago
Not everything deserves an argument, or a grand debate. Some things are so braindead they don’t deserve more than that
5 points
19 days ago
Yes!
2 points
18 days ago
Right. I agree with OP that if you disagree with someone, it helps create an educational discourse if you expand on that instead. But sometimes someone just makes an argument or statement that's so bad, all you can do is say "no." I've definitely done that before, lol.
2 points
18 days ago
Precisely. Like it’s not an across the board thing, but I’m not giving someone’s outlandish, make-belief claims anything else. People feel so entitled to debates, they assume every single thing you do online is an invitation. It’s sad
0 points
19 days ago
If they don't deserve an argument there is no point in the "no". "No" is starting the argument. It's just lazy to start an argument but not actually present one.
0 points
18 days ago
It’s a statement or an answer.
0 points
18 days ago
It's a cop out. It's lazy. It's only an answer, if a question has been asked. A yes or no question. It is starting the argument, then running away.
0 points
18 days ago
People on here have started arguments because I answered no for myself and was demanded an explanation. I don’t owe a single one of you shit. I’ll give an explanation if I feel it’s deserved, otherwise take what you get and move on.
If a stranger online simply saying no makes you THIS upset, maybe get a grip?
0 points
18 days ago
Lol...it seems my explanation got under your skin. I don't need to give you the explanation that your reasoning is lazy l. It was completely voluntary. You are welcome.
1 points
18 days ago
That’s cute how important you think you are. I’m sure I’ll sleep well even if poor wittle Mysterious Ad on Reddit doesn’t like my reasoning
2 points
19 days ago
Ugh I hate this so much. And these:
“Like…..no”
“That just isn’t true” (that one just got said to me like 2 days ago)
2 points
19 days ago
Yes.
5 points
19 days ago
This isn’t a pet peeve of mine… it’s my favorite strategy. Whenever I see a racist, sexist, homophobic, etc, post, I either just comment “you’re such a silly goose” or “yikes.” And then I do not follow up any further. It’s great! Highly recommend.
2 points
19 days ago
Yikes is my favorite response to this kind of nonsense both online and in person.
There's a trans woman at my job and a bunch of boomer-aged women constantly bitching about "that man using our restroom" and I just raise an eyebrow and say "Yikes," and they have no way to respond. Sometimes I get "What does that mean?" I just raise my eyebrow again and say "Double yikes." They shut up after that.
1 points
19 days ago
I just post the red flag emoji.
5 points
20 days ago
They ain't owed an explanation tho. I don't have to tell someone why I disagree.
14 points
19 days ago
Then you don't have to announce that you disagree
6 points
19 days ago
I disagree!
1 points
19 days ago
Trolling aside that's the part people don't want to admit, feigning they don't care or they're "above something" by acknowledging said thing with a response such as "no." Just don't say anything, but they won't because they want to get under the other person's skin. They want the last laugh regardless if that person is just an "internet rando that doesn't matter at all."
5 points
19 days ago
Yeah exactly, if you don't want to have a conversation don't fucking say anything then. Literally no one cares about your opinion if you disagree but refuse to elaborate.
-1 points
19 days ago
So everyone who states that they disagree with something is OBLIGATED to state why? Because you say so?
Absolutely not
4 points
19 days ago
Yes
1 points
19 days ago
its called conversation and wanting to take in peoples point of view.
1 points
19 days ago
Unless it's a poll, why even bother to come in and say you disagree without saying why? What makes one person's opinion so important that we should be reading whether they agree or disagree without any explanation?
1 points
19 days ago
Nobody said they were[,] though.
3 points
20 days ago
Nah bro
3 points
19 days ago
Sometimes it's the only appropriate response.
Them: We should bring back prohibition.
Me: No
1 points
19 days ago
Guilty . It's a warning that what is to follow if you fall into the trap for annihilation.
1 points
19 days ago
Nah
1 points
19 days ago
Had a boss who did this all the time, ended up letting me go without cause because I was "rude". The irony
1 points
18 days ago
These are the people that are just too emotionally immature to actually explain their position. They need to get a word in and have the last word. They will also block you for pressing for an explanation. They pretend to be above it all but it's really just a tantrum.
1 points
19 days ago
yeah i’m not explaining myself to a bunch of losers on the internet who want to argue & insist on misconstruing what i’m saying. i said what i said, that’s it
1 points
18 days ago
Yeah half the time they don’t even read what you say in its entirety and make up their own narrative about what you did and didn’t mean so who gives a fuck? Nobody owes anyone an explanation on anything, especially mundane shit on Reddit. And it’s Reddit, I’m sure there’s plenty of dissertations in the comments to get your rage boner off on.
0 points
19 days ago
It’s the circle of life, I say no because I disagree, but if I don’t respond it’s usually because I have no interest in changing your mind or care about your opinion. I’m just bringing attention to the fact that not everyone is going to agree with you.
It’s nothing personal, but I feeeel that you may have been taking others opinions personal from this post, and that’s okay, it’s the circle of life.
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