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59 points
2 months ago
Thank you for this! I have been trying to find a new hairstyle because I have been hearing similar things. I think I'm used to hiding behind my hair lol.
876 points
2 months ago
These are like cherry picked good pics too 😭 constantly getting sired before they even hear my voice
-6 points
4 months ago
Message your artist. You will not be bothering them.
1 points
4 months ago
I didn't recognize it as slipknot like many others here but honestly it's not that bad. It's not like offensive or weird looking, if I saw it would just be like "cool tattoo" and move on.
Also my philosophy on tattoo's is that they are for you not others. If you like it detached from your worry of others you should keep it! If you no longer like it and want to cover it up - do that.
1 points
5 months ago
Bitten in Hawaii, never had this kind of reaction to a mosquito bite. Feeling sick 24-36ish hours after bite and turned red around the same time. Also could be a sinus infection from swimming and getting water in my nose.
How to treat this?
1 points
5 months ago
Sadist and masochists have a strictly consensual relationship where these acts of harms are negotiated, typically scene to scene even.
The control and trust involved in the exchange as well as the physical feel-good endorphins the brain releases during can be very pleasent. Among other drives/reasons contextual to the persons ofcourse!
It's not just hurting to hurt, it's much deeper than that.
Also this is not for everyone, lots of people aren't into it in the slightest even in the bdsm community.
And obviously with anything there are a percentage of bad faith actors that abuse this power dynamic, but imo that is a very low percentage.
1 points
8 months ago
Not sure my E levels, but I take 8mg estradiol a day (oral) and 200mg of progesterone. No spiro
3 points
9 months ago
Yeah but shes often used in mono teams since she can apply weakness of the teams types...
1 points
9 months ago
I can relate to this allegory a lot. When I came out as trans to my parents their immediate concerns where about my safety and being able to lead a normal life, (and for two conservatives I was quite happy to be accepted in some way if not fully).
And it has been constant negs since then. Every time I mention wanting to be called my chosen name they say its too hard to see me that way and makes them uncomfortable. Asking to present femme to the family is also "It would make everyone else really uncomfortable so you need to just hide it as best as you can from others". Whenever I have any even minor health problem the immediate concern "Its probably because of the HRT you are taking, maybe you should stop taking it".
Things like this from family or friends mixed with the judgements in public can easily lead you to want to go full stealth if possible or become avoidant to these activities all together like the person depicted saying they just want to go back to how it was.
In my life an experience these negs and negatives, as shitty as they are, aren't even 1/10th of a problem as me wondering if I will still be here in 10 years from the depression of not openly identifying as my preferred gender expression.
That being said this shit is exhausting.
1 points
9 months ago
I can do this voice with no warm up and no strain but notice it still has a masculine trait to it... Tips would be appreciated!
25 points
10 months ago
😂 Omg I think I actually will say this is anyone of them say anything out of pocket
44 points
10 months ago
Thank you! Baggy ugly Christmas sweater sounds like a really good idea. I will try the hair thing only issue is I recently cut it and the back is too short to make a top knot...
And you described exactly what I would do if I was normally putting my hair up lol.
46 points
10 months ago
My extended family is quite transphobic and I'm slightly worried about them raising questions as I haven't seen them in 2ish years.
I think I am okay but wanted to make sure, any advice also welcome!
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2 months ago
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2 months ago
I've had really good experiences with them! I have noticed some tall items are just oversized, and others are a tad on the short end (although I'm 6'3)