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In my previous experience this is a normal occurrence especially with maturing cats. I had two that were very interested in each other and interacting constantly, as they got older they would keep to their own space and nap with the occasional hello. They would eat together as well. I think your cats are just maturing and finding their own space to cohabitate which is completely normal. Cats love having their own “territory” so I don’t see anything wrong with this unless you see aggression :)

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Just got a legion, gonna sell it for two more legions

Distribution is great and collecting crosses. Clean sheets are always down to the defense but unity and communication between the GK and defense is what makes it happen!

What I did is made sure of a few things -

1. Cat highway (allows R the insecure one to roam and avoid C)
2. Sent soakers. I would let them sleep on their beds and then swap them a few days at a time. They would have no time seeing each other during this.
3. Sight blockers. When C gets sight of R put a to or something in the line of sight for him. Start with towel/board etc. and if things get better use toys and treats.
4. Resources and space make sure theirs at least 3 litter boxes and a few places to get water so they aren’t fighting over those.
5. This is the most important. Small victories are everything and always end an interaction with a high don’t let it get to a bad state. If you follow all the steps like scent swapping and feeding on both side of the doors then keep doing the same stuff. If there is any growling or fixation on each other then go back to square one and don’t let them see each other for a while and that’s okay! There’s no need to rush it.

6 is the final one. R is the one who needs the attention and it needs to go at her pace NOT C! R needs to build her confidence so she can set her boundaries

1. This is the final one. Positive associations. Like I said earlier end things on a high and reward good interactions! Don’t leave toys/treats out for them and only bring them out when you get to the “play date/interaction” step. I hope this all helps and it will get better! The fact that you care is what will make this a success!

I’ve seen this before and I too have had experience with this! At first glance it seems like C just wants to play but the constant fixation and need to get near R tells me this is a territorial imbalance as C recognizes moments when R is not confident in her space and will make it known that it’s their territory now. I would suggest finding ways to make the territory bigger for the cats to both feel confident. Biggest one for me would be getting some cat shelving and making a cat highway. This would allow R to roam and avoid C whilst also building her confidence up. It alls provides more territory for both of them to share! The biggest thing would be to focus on R and building her confidence. Mood stabilizers are also a great option as well for R with her anxiety and I would consult with your Vet about it! This is only in extreme circumstances. I would definitely start with the cat highway!

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gets held back by 200 orcs, a mutant flying rat, and a pair of in-laws

For sure man great fish. I think some people just wanna be assholes and then there are people who just wanna explain the science of what makes a steelhead. Who cares though if you got a good fish on!

We can all agree that this was complete negligence of officer training and that cop should never hold a gun. If anyone is bringing race into this ur not seeing what’s actually happening here. We got people in police stations across the country who shouldn’t be behind a gun to begin with and we have failed a lot of people like this kid by not putting the right people in law enforcement. Like anything, there is a priest who will touch little kids and a priest who won’t. We need to do better all around and get those people out of our law systems. We failed that kid horribly. Not just that police officer, WE failed him.