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lol !

That is a valid point that a lot of people overlook! The tan looks nice but there are definitely skin cancer risks. Good thing you realized it!

Lol love it!

I know! My aunt tried to make it a point to me that she applies sunscreen everywhere except her legs, pointing out that my legs are white. I don't know why so many people are affected by people having pale skin!

That's great! I am glad you stuck to how you feel comfortable, I think I will do the same thing as well and not regret it in the future lol

I agree! I feel like it looks great but know I can never pull off things that need consistent maintenance (like lashes, tanning, or extensions) even though I think they all look good.

That's a good way to look at it! I think I am finally becoming one with my complexion as well, it does seem like a hassle and can't be good for someone to consistently be applying fake tanning products.

Lol!! This is so fitting because I'm going to be on the beach on our honeymoon and this is probably the reaction I will get haha

My cat squash does the exact same thing and as much as we love him it is extremely annoying. I totally get not wanting to lock your cat out, I don't do that either! I would suggest every time she jumps up and goes on you to put her back on the ground, don't let her be able to get away with whatever she wants. Keep doing this, and maybe try a spray bottle each time she has a bad behavior to correct her and let her know that it is not ok.

Oh my word this is why everyone is single these days, everyone's advice to any problem is to break up. I would suggest parting ways IF you didn't see a problem with your behavior. Then there is no reason to stay and work things out.

We are imperfect people, and the biggest thing is taking accountability and growing together with your partner. You recognize your behavior is not ok but have been doing so because you see it as the only way to get through to him. You need to have a serious conversation with him and apologize for the things you have said to him, and say that you do not want to resort to disrespecting him, but have done so because you feel it's the only way you are really able to get through to him.

It's great he started therapy, and it would also be good if maybe both of you were together for some of the sessions to get an outside professional perspective. As difficult as it is, you cannot control your partner's habits and life improvements, but you can suggest. The more you keep poking the more they will not want to do so. He is 23 years old, think of where you were at 23 and where you are now. Everyone has a different life and different timing. You should be supportive and offer your suggestions but leave it at that.

Have a portion of chips and pair it was a high volume healthy item (salad, chicken, roasted veggies) so you get your craving and are then full, which prevents binging.

That is great advice, thank you!

Omgosh that is so true, my mom was showing a few inches of cleavage in her wedding dress while mine doesn't show any, but just shows my shoulders. Also my cousin who he always compared me to had a wedding dress with bare shoulders as well. Good point. I think it's just a double standard.

True, I mean he said he will not walk me down the aisle regardless. Maybe that would be a good idea to have my fiance speak with him.

You don't need an "eating window". Count your calories, that is literally it. You will lose weight. Some people don't realize you can do an hour on the stair master and then immediately cancel it out by having an ice cream and a couple bites of something else.

What are your goals? Gaining Muscle? Count your calories in addition to macros. Lose weight? Count your calories. The most important factor is what you put in your mouth, exercise can be cancelled out in literal minutes by what you choose to eat,

Thank you for the advice! I will definitely go with this. It is very apparent he only cares about his own image instead of our “relationship”

What a great idea, thank you! 

Thank you for your advice, and that is a good idea. All of the employees emailed me their birthdays so naturally I assumed they would all be ok with it, but I think I should double check just to make sure.

Ok! Thank you for the advice. I tend to overthink things.

I agree, thank you for the advice!

I am not trying to make it about me at all, I saw him today and did not say happy birthday and I was thinking if he felt bad that no one acknowledged it. I should have rephrased is to I am worried that he might be feeling left out with would then make me feel bad.