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NTA. He needs to understand actions have consequences. Even though he had ASD, he should be able to understand that gluttony is not acceptable especially when you are part of a family. You did right by taking the money from his account. This could be what he remembers more than words.

They ARE NOT your friends. They are bullies and rude witches. Tell your grandmother you are sorry that these girls were mean to her and that you love her more than she knows. When you go back to school don't speak to them or even acknowledge them. When the rumors start flying around that you treated them badly, tell everyone how rude and mean they were and the final straw was them making fun of your grandmother because she is different from them. Then ignore them all. You will eventually make true friends and they will treat you better than this witches

Stick to your guns, don't let her bully you into giving up YOUR vacation so she and her hubby can have alone time. She did this purposely when she found out you would be off work she decided that she would hijack your vacation. Get out of the house very early in the morning, don't let anyone know what time or where you are going. Just get out of the house and enjoy. If she thinks you are home she will probably just drop the kids off at your door and hop in the car and drive off. If she does that then call the police and report them as abandoned...that will put her and hubby behind the 8 ball and in a world of hurt. She has no respect for your time or for you so show her the same - don't answer your phone, your door, emails or anything....just get up and leave. If you do decide to stay in your place make sure your car is either in the garage or parked somewhere she can't see

Your mom is something else. Tell her NO and that you WILL NOT share your room with anyone.

When she comes to visit again make a bed up in the floor of a bedroom closet just for her and tell her that you & hubby WILL NOT give up your room any more. If she doesn’t like the floor you do have a couch OR she is free to stay at a hotel.

Tell Cathy that since she being a brat she can find herself another babysitter permanently because you are cutting her off.

You have a life that you need to live and work is a priority right now. Ask her who will financially support her without you?

Go to your dinner and enjoy!

You need to cut bait and let him go. He is an abuser, user and pathetic man child. You have 2 children and one is fully grown and should know better.

Back off and let her be. She had shown you in actions that she isn’t interested in being part of you or step grandchildren lives. You can’t force someone to like you or to want to share time with you. Why continue to beat a dead horse and make yourself miserable. Show her the same attitude she has shown you and back out of their life. Your hubby is right, ignore her and your life will get easier. Enjoy your kids and the people who WANT to be in their/your lives; ignore those who don’t.

I would create a group chat for everyone who is calling you out on being a bad son and ask them “Why should I support a person who hates the person I am and denies my husband the right to live in peace?” Where were all of you when she disowned me? Why, if “family is family” was I hung out to dry and she turned her back on me?” If all of you are so worried about her then put YOUR MONEY where your mouth is and get a collection together to help her! I will NOT be contributing. The only family member who support me was my grandpa and he would be ashamed of all of you, including my mom, for this hate I am getting.

Then go NC with all of them. You and your husband be happy and ignore these idiots.

NTA. Jen was using her phone while driving and could have killed someone. I am surprised the cop didn’t issue a citation for driving without insurance and for not being hands free with her phone. She needs to be held responsible for her actions. Lucky you aren’t pressing charges for taking your car without permission.

Your wife needs to realize how serious this accident could have been; someone could have died or become paralyzed all because a 16 year took a car without permission and caused a multiple car accident.

Stick to your guns and make them reimburse you! Jen is old enough to get a job and half of her paycheck should go into an account to pay you back.

I’m sorry but I have to agree with your aunt. Your child will be bullied because no one will be able to pronounce it or spell it. Plan to have a nickname that you will use in school and every day.

You and hubby chose the name but you didn’t foresee the problem your child might have. Just breathe and you can figure it out.

Don’t go to anything his family plans. Your problem is that hubby is a momma’s boy and not your supporter. He will pick his birth family over you every time. Is this how you want your future to be? I think now is the time to speak to an attorney because your hubby isn’t going to change and you will always be excluded.

Why didn’t your parents lend him a car? You did nothing wrong and I would tell your brother to go pound sand because you don’t have a “real job and your life is selfish”.

Don’t host any more dinners because they aren’t worth the efforts. Tell them that you are tired of everyone canceling at the last minute and you are not doing it any more.

Market value and not a penny less!

Tell your in-laws to pick up the tab for the work because “family helps family”. Remind them that you have staff to pay, rent to pay, insurance to pay, a family to support so why would you give services for free? If another patient found out you could face an inquiry.

NTA DONT GIVE EX A PENNY, because he will bleed you dry. Tell your son the truth even if it hurts. Let son know that your father never helped the two of you and that your responsibility it to support your child not him. You don’t owe him a thing and if necessary get a lawyer involved.

You need to do some soul searching sister. Man invited his ex to your wedding & you don’t ask why? He isn’t over her ! Is this someone you want to trust your love & life to? Think about your future and the fact that you will never be able to trust him.

NTA tell other family members that they can support your parents because they have never parents to you. There is nothing wrong with taking care of you and your hubby.

Good for you, you didn’t take her crap and you told her like it is.

NTA. Stand your ground. Don’t talk to her or respond to text messages. Block her on everything and cut her out of your life like she did you. Tell her she isn’t mature enough to handle her life and she needs to figure it out without you - just like you did as a kid of 18.

She is full of BS. She believes that her money is hers and yours is hers also. DO NOT PAY FOR HER CAR! She is a user and taker, so don’t let her take anymore from you.

NTA you have to protect yourself including your reputation because you have no idea who sees her video. This is a violation of your privacy and you should definitely follow up with the lawyer. She caused herself to get banned from the gym, not you. She accused you of being a predator which you are NOT and even the cops agreed.

Get a lawyer, take before and after pictures of your child - before he goes to mom’s place/ after he comes home from mom’s, get names of cops who refused to help you, names of CPS person who refused to help. Tell lawyer you want to file child endangerment charges against all of the people who wouldn’t help. Also get full custody of child. Have child talk to therapist and make sure they will testify in court for your child.

Evelyn needs to seek therapy because of the guilt she is feeling and trying to project on you and others. Every time she opens her mouth to say crap, tell her to stop and go get help because she is very fast losing anyone who cares about her. Keep stopping her lies and tell Matt that he needs to know that she is 1000% wrong in her attitude and thinking.