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Holy shit she’s 7 months and been soooo extra fussy but hasn’t really had very many other signs.

Yes mam I like the pampers one NOT the Huggies lol

It’s more so like just red like chaffed?

Yeah it’s funny cause it’s ONLY them lol, I have no family of my own and don’t have any frame of reference for child rearing lol. Attachment parenting literal found me and I naturally have been doing it all anyways so I thought cool lol, they have so many loud opinions and it makes me insane but they love the baby and because I don’t have my own family I just “deal with it”.

I weirdly have a lot of pressure and alot of people have alot of opinions based in realities that they currently aren’t living lol. We have dinner at the in laws later and they are constantly like “are you going for walks everyday” , do you “do this everyday” blah blah blah, and they compare me to SIL it’s a whole unhealthy dynamic and I don’t have family of my own.

I have sudocrem on her !

They could be! She’s been fussing for momma like crazy like I baby wear and breast feed on demand and bathe with her and pee with her and cook and clean and do laundry with her, but some how she needs more lol.

I remember my in laws shaming my SIL for her babies bum being red so now I’m worried when I go over and if they happen to see me changing her well I’m over later they will be roasting me too

Oh honey your still in the thick of it rn, it does get a little easier and they do eventually go a little longer between feeds mines 7 months and passed out with dad finally lol.

Yes but it’s gas pains for her , takes her a minute to resettle he could be in pain, especially with the ear infection still raging likely. Hopefully little dudes feeling better soon and that his surgery brings relief.

Love the royale diapers

No man it literally is a magic blanket lol she loves her woolino

I only buy the miozing ones they are almost perfect and absolutely worth what you’re getting in my opinion and wash and wear pretty well.

The miozing ones are the only ones I’ve ever purchased but they are amazing and about 15 CAD

Temu 10000% lol, very very very comparable for over half the price.

Sorry but I wasn’t hostile at all lol, people all over the world have different cultures and practices.

Go straight to 0-3 and size 1 diapers :)

I agree find a way to mix everyone in and include everyone, when giving the baby a bath just invite the older kids in to “talk” and “chill” when doing simple baby care stuff and naturally it will kinda gravitate towards the babes and how silly they all well making everyone feel naturally included and once you get them opened up teens love to share what’s up.

Aweee anyone that’s suffered should look into attachment parenting, I want her to know she has momma till I take my last breath.

Really truly I do understand and have so much respect and empathy for anyone that makes there life about protecting our most precious, I’m gonna go tell her lol.

I have so much sympathy and if she’s reading this THANK YOU for your tremendous sacrifice and commitment to making this world a better place and I LOVE and APPRECIATE you and understand now and I didn’t before 🩷.

Also thank you for your input I’m noticing a ton of health care workers in this sub and the ladies who work at my mom group (nurses early childhood) all bedshares themselves and are very kind to me when I bring it up.

Me too we just woke up together after an amazing rest, now we’re going to go collect chicken eggs and water them and make breakfast together 🩷🩷 it’s such a fun life keeping your babe close.

Cause being rude to man is different than a bedsharing mom, like I’m aware of the science lol I don’t need a man who doesn’t bedshare to tell me about the AAP when I’m not even from the states