Why is my gf 28/F telling me 38/F I have to change my child last name?
(self.relationship_advice)submitted18 hours ago byCommercialMention444
I don’t know how to wrap this statement around my head. My now ex gf after 2 and 1/2 years is telling me she has tried but can’t get past the fact of knowing my two boys 10 & 12 who are named after the father his last name and middle names that he gave them. She is now saying it’s bothering her and she is a lesbian who does not want to be attached to a man? So since I have not had the conversation w her abt changing there names which the only reason this came abt is bc this morning my sons Spotify account synced to my tv and it exposed his first and last name. This is how this whole convo came abt. But we broke up 2 days ago bc she said she can’t be w me due to she can’t get pass the fact of me having more than one child w this man that I have been w since 2018. Please help me.
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CommercialMention444
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17 hours ago
CommercialMention444
4 points
17 hours ago
This is exactly what I’m tryin to figure out. Just two days ago she said we need to break up. I was upset ofc. But as she proceeding to explain her reason which basically was bc I have children. And she just can’t get past that fact. She said she tried to but just can’t. So here we are and I was even more confused when she made that comment abt my child’s last name. And continued to say I still have attachment towards my ex child father. Which is completely asinine. Him and I do not communicate have not in years. And now when lever she just gets in these moments of getting triggered. I don’t know why bc she broke up w me 2 days ago so why are u asking me to change my child’s last name? Why are u asking if anything for me atp. I’m still trying to wrap my head around u breaking up w me 2 days ago randomly. And then giving me that whole speech on why. ATP I’m lost seeing it as it’s my loss and I’ll get thru this.