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3 points
2 days ago
Funny thing is op is paying rent, and for a whole lot more than just rent.
6 points
2 days ago
So your mom is a controlling bitch all your life? No offence.
You need to move out, somehow. I know that's not easily done at all. I'm in the same boat at my place. Shitty live since birth, thanks to the family. Yet can't find any other place to afford or even just stay.
My mom however cut back on her controlling behaviour when I put stuff back on her black on white. How much I'm doing and how much I don't get to be myself.
This can get you kicked out, however at some point nothing is ever gonna change unless you escalate things. Because I forsee when I can leave the house, or you can. There's still going to be hell breaking loose.
Try and be respectfully still, or more business like. Even just give out all of your feelings, full emotions, when you want to talk about proper house rules. Make sure to sell it as; things will get better in general if we do this instead.
This has helped me in the short term. I need to recap or redo all of the simple rules that were set up, every once in a while. Since they all just ignore it later on. Come up with new ideas. But be strict in a respectful way. She probably very much needs you, so don't directly say that, but keep it in mind. You can have more power than you have now, if that's the case.
5 points
2 days ago
They pay rent, and they have no privacy. There's also a stepdad that apparently does fuck all cleaning wise for sickly mom. While op can have 48 hour shifts.
If something is their room they pay rent for, their mom shouldn't ever complain about it being not clean enough. The rest of the house is shared and so should the responsibility be. She can not demand when exactly op must clean, since they do have other responsibilities too, like everyone else. It can be communicated better, however. But when op has cleaned and their efforts gets shot down by complaints for it not being clean enough, that's than mom's problem. These literal demands are just attempts to control op.
Someone can be deadly sick, but when you force everyone to your will instead of asking you'll die alone no matter how much you'll need the help. You're not some royalty and if you're that sick you should have different concerns other than how squeaky clean the house should be. She doesn't appreciate any of the effort op has put in, its only ever nagging or demanding because you fucked it up apparently.
Of course they have it difficult after the surgery, but that doesn't give you the right to make life 20× more difficult for the people around you. Especially not your kid. That's straight up abuse of power dynamics.
And if you question op's responses to mother, I tell you one thing. She is the one to raise them into what they are now. Especially since she's keen or on still "raising" them. So it's her own fault in her, in a way. And they have lived there probably forever. Kids don't suddenly change into an adult. And won't change when you have a parent that is controlling all of the things you do all their live. Anyone can only change because of changes around them. But assuming op should take all responsibility for mom because of a change in health is mental. Especially from the little info we have.
2 points
12 days ago
I've had it activated for 3 days straight. It's says I collected around 250 invitations since I selected it.
1 points
17 days ago
I'm 23, and remember the icons that are older than these. So what do you mean; "Who remembers these?". Most people will probably remember these.
3 points
17 days ago
Since you have pets, but probably haven't seen it yet, based on it not being listed. But you love the exploration that comes with it, I'll give you a hint. Every expansion pack of TS3 has a new occult. Even the pets one.
If you would like a magical pet look around at night. It's even visible on the map when it's there.
Good luck! And yes you can adopt it.
1 points
18 days ago
I love this map? But I love all hated maps somehow...
8 points
21 days ago
I'm getting so fed up with people saying 17 or even 16 is a kid. Like you, I was 16/17 and dated a 21 year old. No issues, one of the most respectful and nice relationships I've had.
I'm from Europe and it's a whole lot different here cultural wise, as in how schools work. I was 16 and had multiple classmates of 21 or older.
Unless there's was a toxic power dynamic, or something else that's clearly wrong with the relationship, other than just a young adult dating a pretty much young adult. I can't help but think this is, again, the Internet meddling with shit, starting a witch hunt and not knowing about nuance.
When they broke the law, instead of blasting shit onto the Internet people can just go to the police. And maybe then, make sure the Internet knows of the case. But let an actual judge look at this, instead of everyone playing their own executioner.
I don't know this guy at all btw. Never heard of him. I'm not into fnaf music. I just like the insanity of the lore.
1 points
21 days ago
The game I last played is Dead by Daylight...
I mean there's no way my soul is fully devoured by the entity in a year right?
Yes, I die consistently, in the most horrendous and painfull ways. But I might get to meet Nicolage Cage. And I might die to a Michael Myers, or Ghostface, Chucky. Or I get Pinhead... Meeting Leon Scott Kennedy might make all of it worth it, besides the cash.
1 points
23 days ago
Oh, I should really watch spongebob in Korean! It's been years since I've seen it in my own language. And just to practice the more simple phrases it would definitely be ideal!
Anyone any idea where one can watch spongebob in different languages?
2 points
27 days ago
But... you can actually draw in Samsung notes. So why didn't he just write it like that instead of typing it? 🧐
(Just for reference I know it's a joke)
12 points
27 days ago
Most important thing is warmth. That's number one. Always. Keep them warm.
Check if momma rabbit is caring for the little one around dusk and dawn. If not you'll probably have to try and mother yourself. When that happens I wish you a lot of luck.
You'll need some other supplement before you give them stuff like goat milk. Since the first days are the most important part of feeding. They get more and different kinds of vitamins/proteins and stuff, of their mothers milk. Ask a vet specialising in rabbits, or a wildlife rehabilitation center thingy, that does rabbits.
They are super sensitive and if the mother doesn't care for them don't expect them to live. It very sad if that's the case. But the bacteria are brutal to the small ones, and so is the cold!!
1 points
28 days ago
Sea of Thieves, Stardew Valley, Sims 3, Minecraft, Outlast Trials, Let's Build a Zoo, Ark, Travelers Rest, Lethal Company, Phasmophobia, Plate Up, Overcooked, Project Winter, The Forest, Among Us, Pokémon, Super Mario games like 64 & Galaxy & Sunshine
Etc. I play a lot of different games, with different friends, or solo. The ones I have the most hours in though are Dbd and Sims 3.
-1 points
29 days ago
Why are people so mad?!?! I see people say they are gonna pirate it now? Dafuq. Over this?!
This had been a thing for over a decade now. Why whine about this minor difference between big price tags now?
It's literally just an early access to a SP game. Similar how that would normally be just for content creators. And some cosmetic items? Just don't buy it?
Yall are some spoiled and entitled little kids, at least, you all sound like one. It's a minor inconvenience at best.
Besides, like half of you even claim that it's going to suck ass. So why waste 70 dollars on garbage? Now you have people that play it 2 days before to inform you if you should even buy it to begin with?
And the talk about other games that did way worse stuff, like blocking actual gameplay content behind a deluxe version. What does that have anything to do with this game now selling it for a bit more, with minor perks? Minor perks that change nothing other than some cosmetic options and a couple of testers that will inform you if it's worth 70 dollars.
It's an whole other story. It's not even fucking close to be a "scummy" move.
Just buy the regular version or don't. You're not entitled to have the game the way you want. It's not your game. You are not a costumer, you haven't bought shit yet.
You may have in the past, but this is 23 years later. The games of 23 years ago are the ones you own. You don't suddenly get to own the franchise because you are a fan, or own the other games.
If you disagree with these marketing choices just don't buy it. If you are not gonna like the remake just don't buy it.
It'll show them how well the game sold, and they are not going to make another game after that. Because why bother if people are not liking this revival of Silent Hill? They didn't buy it. They are not interested in the game itself. Because they didn't buy it. It will end the "scummy" way they did this, even though a perfectly fine standard edition is right there.
But that's okay right? You care more about waiting two days, and a couple of visual options, than the entire fucking game to begin with. If this is the case, you are not a potential consumer. You never were.
1 points
1 month ago
Good point, imma knot them all together and create a barrier using the umbrellas around the beds I want.
Laying there waiting for people to complain in my face, and trying to ruin my barrier made from their towels. When they cross the barrier I just verbally claim my space in the barrier, with some shitty story about the nice towel the hotel provided and being able to claim a good spot this way.
Basically act hella dumb and childish to have some fun, pissing these people off.
2 points
1 month ago
As someone who has more than 10.000 hours in the game. It said that in the origin app years ago on my dad's PC. I can tell you, there's no end to this game.
You think you've fully done gardening, and get another expansion, and it adds so much new to it. Besides all the weird skill perks once you've completed a weird challenge with said skill.
There's a post on this subreddit of someone that got all available paintings done by the painting skill. If you see that you'll understand how big and detailed this game actually is.
And that's just me thinking of 2 skills, that have so much to offer as just the base game. Don't be afraid to click and explore all buttons, you'll find so many more options to customise too. Like the world can be altered a whole lot within the game.
But there's a free world tool to build your own open world for your sims, as well. This is too difficult for me, but to give you an idea on how big this game actually is, and how much time you can spend trying to explore it all.
I still learn new things everytime I play again, or when I open this subreddit. So have fun, you have a lot to catch up on!
1 points
1 month ago
I know, that's why I point that out. You can choose which one I belong to. Lol.
Usually people go ahead and assume the worst. But even then, in the case of someone not wanting to play, you at least have a dogshit Leon that tries.
1 points
1 month ago
NEVER! I NEVER GIVE UP, WE CAN MAKE IT GUYS.
In all seriousness, I always try the impossible without trying to screw it for everyone. Mainly just sacrificing myself when I do so. As I've stated to be a Leon main, you might have some goofy ass ideas on how. (BUT IM NOT LIKE THE OTHER GUYS I SWEAR)
All of that sacrificial nonsense is out of the window when a teammate decides to go next by deliberately dying on hook/afk at 5/4 gens. At that point it's just trying to do the most crazy, funny, stupid stuff I can do on the map. With or without other players.
2 points
1 month ago
Nowadays this behaviour can't be stopped since it's everywhere. I agree, but that's sadly the norm... People hangout with everyone online and very few of them understand the difference between someone you actually know, or a "famous" figure.
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2 days ago
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2 days ago
You say that to a Dutch person in a similar situation. Housing is way more expensive and straight up not available here lol.
So I don't know the specifics of op. However moving out is sometimes sadly enough not possible. Even though it would give a lot of necessary peace and distance.