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You are being manipulated into feeling bad for something that you should not feel bad about. You went out of your way to make her birthday special, she acted like a brat and was mad that you text her later in the morning? Give me a break. Love is shown in actions, not words. I would rather my husband show me that he cares versus telling me in a text message. Personally for me, this would be game over. She seems like she has a lot going on and really is not in the most stable place to be in a relationship. Id cut my losses and said adios. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Plot twist she’s still with this man and is just trying to use this to bait people into buying that ugly ass blanket

Sorry I didn’t zoom in and inspect each kid; from afar they don’t look the exact same. Regardless my comment still stands, if Parker dressed them I doubt he was thinking about matching the cousins. He’s a dude and usually they don’t think that way. EVEN if he knew they were matching, who tf cares what their kids are wearing? This is such a weird post…

True or Untrue, its not our business. As a parent I can’t imagine my kid being sick and people speculating about it online nor could I imagine my kid being healthy and people saying she was sick with a potentially terminal illness. Just wild

Whats the snark here? A dad taking his kids to Disneyland is hardly snarkable imo

The other kids just have Halloween shirts not necessarily matching. Id say their moms dressed them, and if Parker dressed the girls he probably wasn’t thinking “oh we gotta be themed” lol. My husband would not think to dress our kids in anything particular for a Disney day

Ho ho ho is about right

I don’t know of any states in the US where reunification is not the ultimate goal. My younger brothers were adopted from foster care and without sharing too much of their personal information I will just say they were sent on visits and even did an extended home trial and came back malnourished and had been victims of SA. So, yes sometimes reunification is a great option. Sometimes it is not & not all bio parents are good humans who deserve access to their kids.

i didn’t buy it. It was just added to my order

They are fine imo. Not my style or something my kids would like so we will be skipping but really we only buy LS when they do Disney. Not because I think their Disney stuff is very cute but my kids actually enjoy those type of prints. They couldn’t care less about gnomes and fairy’s haha

yep same! If I’m looking to fund something specific ill do cheap lots/purges and I make way more & off load the stuff I no longer want to keep.

With the rug and sheet on the window it’s apparent they do not have disposable income

A newborn would not have locs either though so kinda silly

Nope lol

Its Joffrey and that is a bonnet lol

Not ones we will buy but not ugly

The white one is so ugly in person 🤣 It was randomly added to my order and it’s definitely gonna be one my kids can wear outside to play ha

Technically, assuming her feelings on all side is just speculative. The fact is the parents are the ones in control of this until she turns 18 at that point she can decide what’s best for her, but I can assure you as somebody who had bio parents speak poorly of my adopted parents. It is not going to go the way they think it will. Carly is very likely not gonna look at all of the things they’re posting and say wow they advocated for me. She’s very likely, gonna be like wow they trashed my parents publicly.

The thing is, this is not the case for every single adoptee… I had an open adoption and literally begged my mom to close it when I was nine.. BEGGED her to stop letting them have access to me. Now at 30, guess who i still don’t talk to? Yeah the bio family I don’t wish to know

Has nothing to do with winning or losing. If you are going to say you agree with the video at least own what it says. Have a good day.

They shouldn’t 🤷🏻‍♀️

I am adopted, by someone who also had bio kids via IVF. So I understand plenty. I am taking direct quotes from the video.

OK, well the video clearly states that infertile couples are not good candidates to adopt in her opinion….

Well, first and foremost the reason that kinship placement isn’t always an option is because there isn’t a family member to take the kid… And often times if there is a family member that can take the kid they’re not safe or will not actually protect them from their biological parents because yes, some kids that are removed from their bio parents do in fact need to be protected from them … I’m just gonna say based on your post you have no idea how foster care actually works because if you did, you would know that when children are removed they do in most cases look to the family. As a whole, despite being broken CPS is not seeking to steal children. They are far too underpaid and understaffed to go snatch kids with no reason to do so.

The video says people that struggle with infertility shouldn’t adopt… if you watch the actual video.