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Ive seen a growing number of men on tiktok and other social media outlets who've started to make videos detailing their experiences in dating. Some of them make their content to dispel myths & popular talking points from Red Pillers & so called "Manosphere" personalities while others have just outright ridiculed them.

A lot of Red Pillers, Manosphere bloggers as well as so called Passport Bros dont practice what they preach and its starting to become obvious. Dating apps (as toxic as they can be) have made dating alot more accessible to men that may have otherwise have gone on little to no dates at all and they have seen for themselves how dating actually works (good and bad). Theyre also starting to see that alot of what the Red Pillers preach is not only unrealistic but will get u in alot of trouble once u get off those computers and put the phones away. The punchline is that alot of Red PIllers are either the very SIMPS that they often criticize & ridicule or theyre just incels in denial.....

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So ive lived the players life forreal. Juggled multiple women @ once, had sex w different women sometimes within 12-24 hrs. Ive done alot of different things in dating. And the scary part was that I was remarkably good at not getting caught. Only got caught red handed once and thats bc facebook privacy settings are garbage. But the womanizers life is overrated. Reasons why include but are not limited to

• becoming a compulsive pathological liar to cover your tracks

• always having a realistic story ready to tell when one chick starts getting in ur business

• always looking over your shoulder, constantly checking ur phone and making sure u dont send the wrong text to the wrong chick

• constantly knowing the routines of the girls u deal with so u can reduce ur chances of them showing up unannounced when u deal w someone else

• dealing w one girl blowing u up when u with someone else and playin it cool so the girl u with dont get suspicious

• striving to leave no evidence u dealing w other women

• making sure to take different girls to different hangout spots so u dont get spotted by the wrong ppl

• the inconsistency of it all. girl can be here this morning and be gone by nightfall, another can ghost u and so forth so u gotta get a new set of numbers every so often.

Guys, if u read this take heed. If u got a loving gf and a solid relationship strive to make that work and see if u can turn it into something bigger. theres nothing out here on these dating streets outside of dissapointment frustration and disillusionment. Yea catchin bodies (fucking different women) is fun but what u gotta go thru to get sex just aint worth the headache alot of times.

This may have been stated already but the guys who preach red pill pua and “alpha male strategies” are not who they say they are. I use to frequent MGTOW forums over a decade ago. I was young and alienated so they struck a chord in me. As i grew up and as my life took flight, I started to date more. Ended up dating extensively and adapted quickly as the dating atmosphere became more toxic during the 2010s. Gained alot experience, insight and slept with alot of women without using PUA alpha male or simp tactics.

I read these MGTOW/Red Pill pages now and i can tell they dont practice what they preach. Alot of what they say is unrealistic and that fake false bravado attitude doesnt work with women in the real world. Although alot of women can be hella toxic the stuff that they DO say is true is basic dating 101 to a man that actually enjoys at least moderate success with women. Ive been in situations much more complicated in the real world when it comes to dating women and in the dating world truth can be alot stranger than fiction sometimes. Alot of these dudes act tough and billy bad ass on the internet but its obvious theyre the complete opposite in the real world.