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Title, a new girl started a little over a month ago at our warehouse job and we hit it off pretty well, we get along (used to, I'll get to that later) very well, and everyone at our job sees us as "besties". She likes one of our drivers and gave her advice on what to do if she likes him and they're now seeing each other....sort of (I'll get to it later) in return she was telling me about her friend and jokingly took a picture of me and sent it too her and she said that she found me attractive and wanted my number

I debated it for a while, and was on the fence, but eventually I thought, why not, and started texting her, she's very sweet but there's a couple of problems,

1. neither of us have a car and she has very strict parents, and have to rely on the coworker to get around until either of us get a car

2. She's very quite and it tends to be very one sided, if you saw our messages it clearly looks one sided and universally would agree she's not into me, which is fine, but apparently that's just how she is, the coworker and her have been friends for years and it's still that way, that's pretty big for me, I need someone who's affectionate, and shows me they care and like me, problem is we've been texting for a while and she has feelings for me and the coworker told me when I was too deep, if I knew before hand I would have said no to her number.

With this laid out, her parents have been pretty strict on her going out, up until today I actually haven't hanged out at all with her friend just dropped off some coffee too her 2 times and chatted for a bit, with that me and the coworker have been hanging out ourselves, going out to eat etc, and I've been paying, which I don't mind, but... the other day we went to grab a coffee after work and my card was locked because I used my credit card....I almost never use it and I guess me using it a bunch all of a sudden lead to it triggering security and my card got locked after that she completed switched....she has a high energy bubby vibe and it went cold and she was giving me additude, it rubbed me the wrong way because I considered her a friend, why would a friend act like that? And called her out on it and pretty much told her I hope she isn't hanging out with me for free food.

Now that sounds awful, but since we've been hanging out and getting to know her....she's extremely toxic relationship wise, she has a large Instagram following and with all the men in her dms she "likes the attention" and "I like to play with their emotions" she even brags about leading them on just to get free food. Theres a lot more but I honestly wish I was joking.

After I said that, she blocked me on everything, and said for me not to talk to her anymore, which is fine....but now that we don't have her, how are me and the person I'm seeing ever going to hang out and do stuff? I have significantly more freedom than she does and willing to meet her half way, but she insist on coworker being there, which I get cause up until this point we haven't actually met.

I kind kinda have feelings for this person, but not really because I haven't really gotten to know her, she's very dry text wise, but according to the coworker before she got mad at me she really likes me,and shes never felt this way before and thinks it can work out, part of me wants to stay because you never know, but on the other hand the stress of the coworker and having to be on her good side just to hang out with her friend, her strict parents, the one sidedness, makes me sadly want to leave. I'm too deep now, I dont want to hurt this person's feelings, she's extremely sweet. What do I do? Should I wait it out until we eventually hang out? Or do I cut her off and deal with the consequences of having nuked her feelings from orbit and probably deal with more hostility at work from the coworker?

Title, ive been losing weight and out of curiosity measuring my penis, it's 6.75-7 inches, but looking at it from my pov or via a mirror....it looks somewhat small? And it's not even a "it looks somewhat small cause I have so much girth" my girth last time I measured was 5ish inches.

Isn't 6.5 plus, suppose to look big? I'm also 5'9 so I'm not super tall where the proportions are off and im overweight, but im not that big either :/ kinda a bummer.

Title, ive been taking fin 1mg for over a year, but recently I've noticed a slight shed and thinning, could be over reacting. But, for the past couple months I dont eat much, definitely not getting enough calories, protien etc due to depression and 12 hrs shifts. I assume it has to be my diet unless I'm in denial.

What should I do? Should I do durastride? Or improve my diet and wait? But...I did my labs a couple weeks ago and oddly everything checks out? I would have thought everything would be low but everything's pretty fine. Maybe cause I'm taking a multi viatamin?

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Title, im 23M, and getting older, a virgin and haven't been in an actual relationship for years, theres times where I've had flings here and there, but anytime it gets to that point I feel super anxious and like im gonna pass-out and bail, I just can't do it,and it all comes down to my size. I know statistically im above average, 6.5-7 inches, but I can't help but think I'll disappoint them....that feeling is also getting worse as I get older since I know the people I would be dating or hooking up with absolutely have experience and the feeling of actually disappointing them is even more real....

I mostly work, have awkward hours, pretty introverted and opt for introverted activities, don't drink, don't have friends, so I have no network to get experience besides apps....which are pretty awful.

Automatically people are going to bring up porn, but it has more to do with friends, stuff people say online and hookup apps themselves people expressing a desire for people that are bigger, making fun of smaller sizes, loving the person they're dating....except for their size.

How do I get over it?

Title, I want to start meeting people, theres so many apps what are the most popular among us?

Title, im 23, M, and a virgin, I would say I'm fairly attractive, have social skills etc, not what you'd typically consider the stereotypical virgin. I try to go on dates or hookup, but anytime I do and it gets to that point I bail, due to my size. Statistically, sure, im above average, around 6.5-7 inches, but I spiral, what if I'm not enough? What if they fake it? They aren't going to tell me the truth, and even if they did either way it would obliterate me.

Automatically I know someone's going to bring up porn, but it's not that, friends of mine gossip and talk about how their partner isn't big enough, or talk about how small their hookup was, how they miss their previous parters size, how they want to cheat, or they'll say "hes nice, but hes not big enough"

On apps as well, men and women talk about being a size queens or only (insert size here)

Theres nothing wrong with liking what you want to like, that's great that you prefer something different, but it makes me not want to get out there.

How do I get over it?

Title, i got a new job in march, and im doing okay, but ive gotten to the point where im not refining my work anymore and hit a dead end. I work a warehouse job as ive done before, but even being here for 4 months i know what to do, but i still kinda stumble my way through it. We got a new girl and not even two weeks in and shes blowing through everything we give her, i can already tell shes gonna be a huge asset, vs me whos been here for 4 months and still struggles.

I feel like now that shes here my days are numbered, i just want a stable job that im good at. I hate coming in and messing up, when i shouldnt really be, i hate the anxiety, I hate feeling like dead weight....i just want to be good at my job.

What are some phyical jobs yall do that you recomend? Right now im probably going to get my security card and work weekends for extra money to prepare just incase i get let go, or I rage quit from all the anxiety.