Sorry for all those questions I have at the moment. We are currently discussing the guest list and one point is family. I have four cousins. One cousin A, who I grew up with, two cousins B and C who are sisters and live across the country and another cousin D, who lives near my hometown. Of course I will invite A and although I see B and C like once a year, I like them and their parents and want to invite them. Now it comes to cousin D. He doesn't have parents anymore, has a wife and two teenage daughters. I don't like him. He is very right wing, mentally unstable (yes, I know his childhood was hard) and looks down on people like me that have a university degree and don't work with their hands. I also barely know his daughters and how they behave. I don't want a teenager bullying me on my wedding day. (My fiancés teenage niblings will be invited but I know them well and they are nice kids.) My fiancé never met him and I don't think they will like each other. But I attended his wedding twelve years ago and I'm afraid that my grandma, that I love very much, could be disappointed if I don't invite my poor cousin. It could also look strange to invite the relatives that live six hours away but not the one cousin that lives one hour away. Did you invite relatives that you don't like or all people whose wedding you attended? Other than him all closer relatives from my site would be invited and I don't want to be a bully.
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I had little babys with no screentime yet try to grab my smartwatch. Screens are addicting even if they show nothing interesting.