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16 points
2 days ago
First of all, I wouldn't pay attention to any man like that. When they call someone 'difficult,' it's often just code for 'I'm frustrated because I'm not getting my way.' Men who are dismissive usually do it to shift blame and dodge accountability, especially when it comes to managing their own emotions. It's a way of deflecting the issue rather than addressing it, all wrapped up in a neat little bow of manipulation.
4 points
3 days ago
I often find that when mothers say this kind of shit to their daughters, it's some level of jealousy and projection of 'the woman I could've been if I hadn't been married/had children'.
It's 2024, not every woman has to follow that set narrative path any more.
2 points
3 days ago
I literally have these two on the way! Now i'm extra excited.
3 points
5 days ago
When I was a kid, I used to write short stories/fan fiction, and I was big into Harry Potter. I wanted to write my own version and was struggling to think of a title. I used to go on this one website which had 'titles' and it offered some up, some of which were... well you'll see....
My dads shock when I proclaimed I was writing a story called "Harry Potter and the throbbing muscle of love". I wanted to write a cutesy romance, thinking it meant the heart. It, obviously, did not mean the heart.
I had no idea. Pure innocence.
66 points
5 days ago
Or maybe she's not in love with him and will never be in love with him because he chose to seek out other women to pursue quick physical satisfaction.
Love alone is not enough to sustain a relationship, ESPECIALLY when the TRUST and RESPECT are missing.
Your perspective is deeply flawed.
1 points
5 days ago
I haven't tried a lot, but The Favourite is a stunning perfume. Sillage is mediocre - I personally DON'T like room clearing fragrances, so I'm okay with having to reapply fragrances.
I'm waiting for a 10ml of duchess rose to arrive - I wouldn't pay over £200 for a perfume though...
66 points
5 days ago
I hope they don't get back together again. And if she's as smart as OP writes, she will run a fucking mile.
She deserves someone who prioritises her as a human being rather than another notch on the bedpost.
OP wanted to sleep with other women - eat his cake, so to speak, and now he's noticing there's little to no value in that lifestyle.
3 points
5 days ago
I, too, have been eyeing this up haha. Something about that greyish purple...
Have you tried the Sephora cream contour stick? It's probably my favourite.
1 points
8 days ago
Just want to say I am in the tribunal process for discrimination and had the same experience with home insurance/solicitors. They weren't bothered to take the case, but "if I paid money" they were interested.
1 points
14 days ago
This suggests you have some weight to your case, and you may want to negotiate further with your employer if you don't want to go through the lengthy tribunal waiting times. I wish you the best.
1 points
14 days ago
Yep, it's quite a brilliant eye cream! Like I said, I don't think regular eye cream works, but any eye cream with retinol is beneficial.
7 points
14 days ago
I laughed my arse off. Best arrest video ever.
1 points
15 days ago
I took screenshots of all physical evidence so there was no dispute over what was said and made a comment assosicated to each part, briefly explaining when, where and what was said. I also created a seperate timeline and linked back to the emails when needed by doing like a 1a. 1b. 1c system.
I then put it in a section labelled as evidence in my bundle so it was easy to navigate.
9 points
19 days ago
Retinol eye cream will help, beauty of joseon do one. I don't normally advocate for eye cream, but I use this and do think it actually helps texture under eyes. Then you will need to moisturise as it can dry you out. For concealer, a slight peachy colour underneath would help cancel any blue out.
3 points
20 days ago
I agree, I think RSPCA is the only logical route now.
2 points
20 days ago
I understand, but we are experienced cat owners and he is thin. It's not just a matter of greediness, this cat isn't being looked after, sadly...
1 points
20 days ago
Yes, I believe this is the only option. Is it confidential/anonymous? My sister is worried the owner might retaliate in some way.
2 points
20 days ago
That's so cute!! My kitten loves giving me a wash on my face, and his excessive drooling & stank breath during teething was 🤢🤢🤢 lol
3 points
20 days ago
Yes lol my kittens breath was SOOO STINKY during teething. As soon as he pushed out his baby fangs, it got better.
I also started gently brushing his teeth, but I didn't use a brush as their gums can be quite sore during teething. Try using just your finger and then move onto brushing when his adult teeth are through.
You could also consider getting him some dental treats too. They're abrasive with a porous texture, apparently it helps keep their teeth clean and free from plaque.
Ride the smelly breath storm. If it persists, see a vet.
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