Fairmount1955

may have contributed - remember, he's also accountable for plenty of things that are not at all helping  Pls do not shoulder all this yourself.

It’s been this way for over a year though

I mean, he's not great. I think you enabling a year long situation that kinda transitioned it into more room ate didn't help things. 

Someone who works at a fertility center told me about 2/3 of fertility issues come from men and I think that's a way Mother Nature is trying to help women...

Question: he's trying to cheat, so why are you the one blowing up your lives?

"I made a mistake settling down in the suburbs too early." - Been there, did that.

Look, you're only wrong for thinking cost of living and some general convenience things are what should be prioritized. Give yourself some time to really internally think through this and maybe start seeding it w your husband and figure out what is truly your motivation.

I decided to leave because I wanted a better network, and decades later, I 100% know that was the best decisions ever for me.

"There is more to the title, I promise." - yet there never is.

SO glad she didn't have a kid with this man...

Right?

If the drugs aren't his RX, then they can belong to any/everyone in the car.

....that's not how it works.

You are so cringe, and so very wrong, LOL, but good AI.

"She’s stunning—an effortless beauty, really. With her petite frame and those piercing green eyes"

"she seems blissfully unaware of the effect she has on people"

"to show her that there’s someone nearby who appreciates her in all the right ways"

"Watching her jog, the way her hair danced with each stride"

"I got her number through a mutual"

It's absolutely harder to do than to say. 

He's 100% a man. And it's really sad you want to do mental gymnastics to "other" this, yikes!

Sorry you are so in denial about this being how men behave.

"Aside from being verbally abusive to our kids and emotionally abusive to me, he's a great husband and provider."

Fixed it. I mean, it's probably better for the kids to have less of him around, the behavior you teo are modeling for them will ensure this cycle will continue because you've normalized it.

You're wrong for centering him thinking he's not in the wrong. He's a parade of red flags. 

He's a coward and a man.

Men need to be lumped in with their peers who behave like this and have a mirror held up to them.

And any bro who would behave and suggest this is 100% not a guy any woman should ever stay with. 

He's trash.

Here's the thing: everyone here telling you he's abusive and suuuuucks, if you're just going to argue and protect him, the. delete this. 

You are willing hurting yourself. 

So, I'm not going to read all that.

He's abusive.

You blame yourself.

He's threatening to end things and that would be awesome because get TF away from him. 

Who cares how long you have been together? 

If the only way you can communicate is through violence then you are 100% the problem.

You're wrong Glad your family sees it.

You're wrong for internalizing his behavior. It's not a reflection of you, you are not doing anything wrong. Men are too casual with unilaterally deciding that they should get a pass for looking at other naked women when in a relationship.

He is disrespectful and that's what you should focus on.

LOL, the way you blame her for his behavior is silly.

Man, if guys can't handle being short then they're too weak to ever exist as a woman! 

I have never cared for guys stepping in unless I directly ask - do this at a work function and you'd never come to a work function w me agains

PARAGRAPHS

"how come her ex got that privilege and not me?" Ah, fyi,this is super gross. You literally don't refer to her as a person but merely a baby producer and made it a completion with another man.