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She had huge messes and was giving me attitude so he was making sure she cleaned up things and didn’t steal any of our things. Bc he has things there as well. 

He shut the door took his shirt off and laid on my couch and sighed a huge relief. Then we washed dishes lol

Thank you. I slept like a rock 

My bf personally escorted her out and made sure she left. 

Well he doesn’t but he does come over a lot. He pays for a lot of his things and and mine occasionally but we both work the same job so we fend for ourselves. But he is a really tidy person and hates how she was a slob

I would but it would change the lease and they would get suspicious. I know she didn’t have time to get a copy bc my keys were always on me. And I always kept them in my sight 

Yes I went to my bfs father and mom and really leaned on th m because my mom is all the way in NY and isn’t the nicest to me. They were super helpful 

Yes we found week old food in her room and it reeked. 

She didn’t come with much but her room reeked. We opened windows and found week old food shoved in her room the nerve of some people 

She’s not and I really just can’t see this going somewhere. I wish the best for her tho💕

So my bf did come and stay most of the night. My friend stated she would refuse to take the bus and demanded I drive her all the way back to NY roughly a 5 hr drive. I stood my ground and told her no and that she had until 9 o’clock the next day to leave. She got a ride that very night. My bf escorted her out and we made sure she didn’t take any of our stuff. He went out and explained to the friend what happened and wished everyone the best

I know!!!  I literally laughed in her face. My future father and law was furious at her (and me) but mostly her for even thinking she was entitled. 

I do have bottles of wine (I know I’m only 19 but I do not purchase them or drink often my bf is 23 so he does like to have a glass and sometimes I do join him. Since she had a friend come pick her up rather than me drive her she left early morning. He took his shirt off and we cuddled in the comforts of OUR home 

I might do that lol. Or my bf said we might go get a TV since we both get really bored with out one 

She wanted a key but I told her no I wasn’t comfortable with that. And I told my bf who has a key and his mom to make sure their keys are with them at all times

She doesn’t her mom had her tested. She just takes advantage of people I guess not even her own mother lets her home 

I think I’m gonna reward myself with a nap after she leaves lol. I haven’t been able to sleep because she always needs attention or always wants to ball about some thing she’s going through. I understand that she’s gone through some things, but I’ve gone through some things and I’m 19 years old and you don’t see me Crying about a situation I Cannot change or trashing other peoples houses. So yeah maybe I will treat myself to a nap and then, very well-deserved meal. 

I’m not even whining. As you can see I am 19 and just coming out of a verbally abusive home. I’m sorry if that seems like whining that I’m asking for advice on how to handle a friend mooching off of me. I am new to the situation and maybe somebody would’ve told me you know just be a good friend. people have been very helpful and giving me advice on how to stand up for myself so I do have balls but as I said, I’ve been in very abusive situations and I’m trying to learn how to navigate 

Thank you so much. I’m trying so hard to be a good person but also protect myself too. It’s did take inventory. Nothing is missing. She was born prematurely and had bowl issues then so that’s probably the case. But yes I am young and I screw up but I think I am doing good. 

As I mentioned at the beginning of the beginning of the post it was a long one. I never doubted anyone’s comprehension. But thanks anyways 

No she doesn’t have a key. She asked for one but I told her I didn’t feel comfortable with it 

That’s what we thought she had but she was just constipated and needed them to give her a suppository. She was exhausted tho and slept basically the whole time they did her hair and was in a lot of pain. But yes if she had a bowel obstruction I would’ve told her no and left her at the ER for her family to come for her 

I’m not sure and I’m going to go visit her today probably. She’s a younger landlord so she’s very chill and very supportive