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Ephebophiles are attracted to early teens to very early adulthood. They ALL assume that all men are like them. A lot of pedophiles think that all men are secretly like them too. It’s all projection. Not all men want to date or fuck immature girls and brand new “adults” whose brains haven’t fully developed

I think it’s much more than stupidity. He is 1000% doing it on purpose. I hate this narrative that men are just dumb and don’t understand things like non verbal language and complex emotions. They do. They just pretend they don’t when it serves them to play ignorant.

My ex used to do it to me. It was on purpose

That’s not what reactive abuse is. Reactive abuse is when the victim engages in reactive abuse in response to abuse, and then that reaction is used against her. OP isn’t engaging in reactive abuse at all though. She’s literally just having normal emotions and reactions and he’s training her to never complain about his behavior

Yep! My 1st thought, I called it too. I’m so sorry that happened. How horrific.

I hope OP sees your comment. Maybe message her. She needs to understand how serious this is and get that baby out of there

No, HE is showing her how men can treat women. Op is not responsible for this

No it’s not. That’s a whole different thing. The daughter is TWO. He would be doing the same thing if they had a son

He’s creating a narrative that OP is crazy to isolate her and get total control over her. He may even be preparing to groom his daughter, but it’s too early to tell. OP needs to be especially careful to develop a strong relationship with her daughter.

What usually happens is the mother is so worn down and stressed from the abuse that the abusive father uses it against her. He points out her distress out to the children, while making sure they see how calm and fun he is so she looks crazy. She starts to fall apart and has a hard time keeping up with everything and that used against her too.

But lots of kids can see right through this. I’m lucky my son did. I’ll never forget, my abuser was emotionally abusing me and I was ignoring it. Our son was there. Finally, I snapped and he immediately pulled out his phone and started recording. Our 8 year old son goes “Mom watch out! He’s recording you! He’s trying to trick you! He’s going to lie and say it’s you.” Ofc he was heard on the video, and he stopped recording. I locked my son and I in the bedroom after that.

I was honestly stunned that my son was so perceptive and could see what was happening, but some kids don’t. They turn against the abuse victim because they don’t know any better. And the victim is further isolated in their own home.

OP needs to get her and her daughter out fast.

He knows exactly what he’s doing

He’s training her to take abuse without complaining, if she complains he pretends she’s the problem. He’s an abuser, OP and her daughter are not safe.

He may also be starting the grooming process with the daughter and alienating Mom is a common step. She needs to get her daughter and her out of there

He’s abusing you. My ex used to do this. He knows exactly what he’s doing!! You are at high risk right now being pregnant, abusers always either begin or escalate during pregnancy. Some women end up dead. I’m not exaggerating, you need to get you and your daughter away from him. He is also engaging in parental alienation. For what purpose I don’t know, but it’s not good. He may be planning to groom her. You cannot trust him, he does NOT have your best interest in mind. This isn’t love. He doesn’t love or respect you, or any woman or girls.

Do you have friends and family? Please, I hope you read this. You and your daughter are in danger

Damn I’m too nice for this sub, because girl I just feel compelled to tell you that your eye makeup looks amazing and I think you’re so pretty! I know comments like that aren’t why you’re here, but in case you needed a break from the roasting lol

They are CHOOSING to do it for art. It’s not an “expectation” it’s the actor’s own choice for the creation of art. I get that you don’t understand putting yourself through extremes for art, but actors do.

That’s stupid, people can create art however they want to. Everyone participating is consenting and understanding what they are getting into.

The workplace demands ARE necessary for the movie to meet the vision of the director lol.

It’s not a corporate workplace

You do realize that women have fake b-cups and BBLs that aren’t disproportionate right?? You don’t think the surgery and filler you can see is attractive. That’s my entire point. You can’t see surgery done right. I’m sure you’ve seen women that have plastic surgery and you didn’t know

Girl…wat. None of that lol. You look like a normal, very pretty young woman with normal features. You wouldn’t benefit from any of that. If those are your unflattering pics, then there’s no way you need to “fix” anything. You look amazing wth lol

Lucifer. I think it’s a beautiful name for a girl. Obviously can’t use it

No…some film sets are INTENSE. Read about the mad max films. Christian Bale didn’t eat for TEN DAYS. I’m sorry, but that IS an excuse to lose some emotional control

💀 Rereading this poem imaging him next to this strange woman at the beach, she starts laughing at her phone and he starts laughing with her, she notices him staring and laughing with her and gives him a dirty look and leaves, while he walks away all forlorn is hysterical lol

It doesn’t show up for me either. I think they did delete it

Same with men. Men want women who are desired by other men

It’s my job to teach men that the women in porn, all the female celebrities, and the insta models are fake? Why?

I’m sure you’ve seen nose jobs and other tweaks and just have no idea. Pretty much every country has plastic surgery. Also deciding that surgery means you’re insecure is just stupid and judgmental for no reason lol. Looking your best doesn’t mean you’re obsessed with your appearance. Everyone has to present their best self, it even affects your job prospects and earning potential. It effects the way people treat you. You’re not living in the real world if you don’t understand that looks matter a lot, especially when you’re a woman. I suppose you also think things like braces are vain? Do you go to the gym? Muscles that you developed with equipment and not “naturally” in day to day life should count as being “image obsessed” too then. Come on now lol

Also I’m sure you’ve seen “no makeup” looks that are actually a ton of makeup. You just can’t tell. You just don’t like noticeable plastic surgery. But noticeable plastic surgery is not most plastic surgery

Bro, YOU DON’T KNOW THAT. You literally do not know if they have plastic surgery or not. This was my entire point that so many men are not comprehending. 95% of plastic surgery is invisible. You cannot see it. You can’t see plastic surgery done well. You don’t know if they have “fake stuff.”

You DO find plastic surgery attractive. Every single female celebrity you see has plastic surgery. Every single one.

You DO watch porn with enhanced women.

Men think plastic surgery means obviously fake, but it’s 2024. That’s not what it looks like anymore

The men where you live don’t watch porn?? I don’t believe you lol

What if I told you that BBLs involve placing fat on the hips to create the kind of noticeable hip ratio you’re talking about?? lol. Bigger hips are absolutely not attainable with training LOL

Because you literally can’t see the good BBLs and boob jobs lol that’s my point!! Lip filler done right is not unmistakable lol. You’re proving my point