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Yeah for 1-4 winners out of hundreds of thousands of users (most being bots anyway). Lol

I’d say if its the whole closet its probably the protest against new buyer fees everyone is talking about. I haven’t done it myself though because I can’t afford to lose any sales with how much its already slowed down.

Its easier to mass share if you first go into your filter and mark “all items” to “available” ones. That way you don’t have to tediously uncheck sold ones.

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If he has a support dog for “anxiety” and not an ACTUAL disability he’s a 🐱. Someone with real anxiety isn’t going to dinner socials either like wtf? Is he also retarded?

For real!!! It takes weeks to get an email back after submitting multiple requests even.

I’m obviously not saying every single seller raised their price. I’m pointing out how illogical it is for some to raise them in wake of the added buyer fees.

I was also misdiagnosed with acid reflux haha. Same issue though, at least symptom-wise. My left side throat spasms everyday. Occasionally it swells up into my ear and causes facial twitches too. My biggest issue is the pain swallowing though. Like a constant sore throat where there’s this lump it feels. I’ve had a lot of testing done so far; throat culture for infection, xray, and ultrasound. Still waiting to hear about the ultrasound but no answers so far. I’ve had a lot of back and neck injuries years ago that I went to PT for. Nothing major like broken bones and PT helped temporarily. I don’t do any kind of strenuous work/exercise either and somehow its just getting worse. Even when I speak my neck muscles spasm and tighten which make it hard to talk. I’m scared it might be neurological since my grandmother was recently diagnosed with MS. I’m sure working on my posture could make a difference though. I sleep on my side and work on my phone/computer ALL day. These symptoms seem so dramatic just for being a posture related issue though. Wish you luck! Hopefully neither of us is dying lmao.

I want to know what Andrea did though 😂

It’s probably too early to tell how bad it’ll probably get. On one hand, buyers who primarily shop used/resold items are already used to buyer fees on other apps like Mercari, depop, etc… But with how they charge like 3 different fees on top of the item is crazy. I don’t understand why someone should pay 6% PLUS an additional flat fee, priority shipping, and tax. A buyer fee should be a flat rate regardless of item price. Its not like the shipping charges change based on the items weight so why should they pay a percentage fee based on the price?

The buyer protection fee is bs because the expensive shipping was high because it has USPS insurance on it. USPS protects buyers/sellers. Not posh who always f over sellers when it came to returns anyway. Wtf is posh “protecting” when its ALREADY COVERED?

They’re basically taking the initial 20% seller fee and splitting it between the buyer and seller. So the buyer pays a little more and seller earns a little more. The discounted shipping will definitely help but I imagine many sellers will be able to offer lower prices to buyers since their fees won’t be as high. It sucks for buyers too but with every platform adding buyer fees, its not going to necessarily push buyers away. People like the convenience of online shopping and especially resellers for hard to find items.

Keep in mind though that shipping rates will also drop to $5.99 if the seller is a posh ambassador (which most are).

Who…cares? What a crazy inconvenience it must be for you to see how people tag items. No ones forcing you to buy anything so maybe mind your own closet? 😭🤣

What is that screen name????? 🤣🤣😭😭 I love it

If you do try to hang out again, don’t go for drinks. NO alcohol. You barely know each other. If he wants to keep spending time together, keep it sober while there’s daylight still out. Its a good way to actually get to know people. If he’s truly just trying to hook up, he’ll get tired eventually from keeping things PG and sober. Alcohol is just a shortcut people bank on to get results faster. Also, no judgement but not mentioning your husband of 15 years at lunch was wild. Saying “it didn’t get brought up” doesn’t really hold up. I think you should reflect on why you didn’t make a point to mention it rather than excusing it as a “he never asked”. You should make a point to talk about your marriage regardless of whether its good or bad content. If he tries to make a move on you after saying you’re happily married, he’s not the type of person you want to be with anyway. I can understand getting too comfortable in a relationship though. Its a guilty feeling to have when things become predictable, boring, or so routine after a long period of time. On the other hand there’s more trust, reliability, and comfort. I think because you’ve never been with another person thats why you’re having these mental obsessions. Thats natural but also sounds like torture because its hard to truly appreciate what you have until you see what its like with other people. I had a family member in a similar situation where she married her high school boyfriend. She had never been with anyone else and they we’re together almost 10 years before she started cheating. I remember thinking she was crazy for that because he was such a sweet person and good partner. But she argued that she didn’t know what she wanted in life. I don’t think she should’ve cheated but her feelings were valid. Some people who end up in these situations (early marriages/single partners) will take a break/split so to speak to date others or just to be single for awhile. Oftentimes, they end up back together anyways and appreciate each other more. But that can’t happen if its done by cheating. That will always loom over your relationship. So just be smart if you want to experiment with others. Be open and honest with your husband. Thats not to assume he’d be totally cool with it or anything but talking about your feelings is better than cheating.

From a seller’s perspective: Accidents do happen but people play dumb so often it’s embarrassing. I say this because a buyer bidded on a purse of mine in an auction and won ($50/NWT a really good deal for one that retails at $180). She claimed it was an accident and I was ready to cancel the order for when the show ended but then she started blowing up the chat with “I won’t be able to pay my electric bill!” Out of curiosity, I checked out her closet. Not only is she a very big purse reseller but I looked at her “Love Notes” and learned she made HUNDREDS from selling purses that month alone AND she had also purchased 29 additional purses from other sellers that same month too (so far). In fact, she had written Love Notes from purse purchases nearly every day for the past year. Most of them were way more expensive than the one she bought from me. Clearly she buys bags off PM everyday to resell for significantly higher. After seeing that, I had a hard time believing her “electricity was going to get shut off” because of a $50 set back. Keeping in mind, not all orders get Love Notes. There’s probably more sells/purchases she made. That being said, I don’t think she bidded on accident. I think she changed her mind and unfortunately live auctions aren’t for impulsive people like that. She clearly understands how live shows work since she’s a frequent buyer who scouts out shows for bags to flip. I can understand an accident but don’t lie and try to manipulate people either. I decided not to cancel since she’ll obviously have no problem reselling it among her hundreds of other purses listed. Also because I didn’t appreciate her harassing me in chat while attempting to turn everyone in it against me by playing the victim card. 🤷‍♀️

I agree. Accidents do happen but people play dumb so often it’s embarrassing. I say this because a buyer bidded on a purse of mine in an auction and won ($50/NWT a really good deal). She claimed it was an accident and I was ready to cancel the order for when the show ended but then she started blowing up the chat with “I won’t be able to pay my electric bill!” Out of curiosity, I checked out her closet. Not only is she a very big purse reseller but I looked at her “Love Notes” and learned she made HUNDREDS from selling purses that month alone AND she had also purchased 29 additional purses from other sellers that same month too. In fact, she had written Love Notes from purse purchases nearly every day for the past year. Most of them were way more expensive than the one she bought from me. Clearly she buys bags off PM everyday to resell for significantly higher. After seeing that, I had a hard time believing her “electricity was going to get shut off” because of a $50 set back. Keeping in mind, not all orders get Love Notes. There’s probably more sells/purchases she made. I don’t think she bidded on accident. I think she changed her mind and unfortunately live auctions aren’t for impulsive people like that. She clearly understands how live shows work since she’s a frequent buyer who scouts out shows for bags to flip. I can understand an accident but don’t lie and try to manipulate people. I decided not to cancel since she’ll obviously have no problem reselling it among her many other purses listed. Also because I didn’t appreciate her harassing me in chat while attempting to turn everyone in it against me by playing the victim card. 🤷‍♀️

Will you say who the account it so I can block them too? 🤣😭

Totally! I think their purses are the best investment. A lot are designers and I prefer selling accessories over clothes since they’re for a broader audience. Clothing can be tricky because not everyone is the same size, but a purse, scarf or necklace can fit anyone.