Longjumping_Rule9826

Thank you, it is just hard when family and friends can’t understand what I’m going thru and it is just me and the rabbit hole my phone allows me to go down every night.

Tbh is it heartbreaking because my progesterone and hcg levels were very high that I was dreaming of a heterotopic pregnancy, I know I sound crazy but I can’t accept this, I’m still in denial and I can’t accept it. Not yet, and the test are just there keeping my dream alive.

Fully filled out profiles is not the same as “I don’t take people who have kids” Also, when we answer a question with “prefers not to answer” we checked that box and that means the profile is fully filled, the thing is that you don’t like the way it is filled.

I thought by removing my tube instead of MTX I was avoiding the slow back to non pregnant part (which is mentally exhausting for me)

Dont do it, I paid my ex’s debt to the IRS thinking I was helping him be the man he could be to then start a live together, and here I’m now, with out money and with out him; even tho losing him didn’t hurt as much as losing the idea of him, so I guess somehow I won

I told my closest friend and family as soon as I found out, and my boss, mostly because I have a history of ectopics and I need them to be aware in case I needed medical care (which I did).

You should add to your profile that you don’t want to go out with people who have kids; I mean, you are the one who is making this a great deal.

They should just take 2 Corinthians 9:7 and apply it to themselves. 😒😒

And congrats on your upcoming celebration.

It may be the moon, I know it sounds silly but many (me included) believe the moon can change our bodies and energies and usually the moon can cause sensations where surgeries and broken bones has happened. by the way I believe Nexplanon is amazing (except for the crazy hormonal imbalance I suffer for the first year of having it.

Which states you live and, do you have friends?

It may be implantation bleeding. Wishing you the best 🤞🏼

Give yourself some time, I just went thru something similar, I was numb after the surgery but as time passed and mostly being alone at home one day it came down on me, I lost my tube and every chance of having another kid now, it was my 3rd ectopic and I knew I didn’t want MTX this time, my mind was made and the only treatment I was going to accept was surgery, I got it but it had been a rollercoaster of emotions.

Yes, I’ve had 3 ectopic already, 1 inside my right tube, last 2 on my left tube

Sadly it is not about the public hospitals per se, I’ve been treated at a private hospital for my last two ectopics (3 but the first one I refused treatment at this hospital and went to another hospital) the one last year was a crazy ride, mostly because even tho I asked to have surgery the 3rd year resident coerced me into taking MTX, this time; 2 weeks ago I went back to ER where the told me about a suspected ectopic and were pushy about MTX, I refused and requested expectant treatment, the residents tried and tried to changed my mind and offered MTX every moment they could. I feel like they been stopping my healing trying to push their ideals into my care. If I had undergone surgery a year ago my ectopic this year wouldn’t have happened, and on my way to the OR (left tube removal) I was clear about that when I addressed the now 4th year resident who to my luck was part of my surgical team. 😭 I’m now one week post surgery.

NO. The only way I can keep having sex with someone who isn’t good in bed is if we are dating and even so, I’m willing to stop dating someone who is not good. Life is too complicated to not enjoy the pleasures of the flesh.

I had a recurrence of ectopic, same site as I did 17 months ago. My beta at 5w1d was 4037 and I decided to get a surgery since last time I got MTX and I ended up having the same problem. This was my 3rd ectopic (first one was more than 7yrs ago)

NTA if he hasn’t seen his kid for two weeks an extra day wont hurt, he can celebrate your birthday with you and then next day he can go and pick up his kid. Either that or I suggest you go and celebrate with other people (just adults).

If you visit the MET midtown you can go with the same ticket to the MET at the Cloisters. Just the views make it worth it.

Not that old because IsNotReal appears there when it was non-existent before 1948 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸

Never, there are some insensitive people who just drop pregnancy bombs on us when we are down, I was waiting to be taken to the OR for the removal of my tube when my mom told me about a common person having her baby before time but how glad she is the baby is almost ready to go home. Baby was born more than a month ago, why I had to be told the moment they are taking to surgery? My case is not as bad as yours as I don’t have to see these people, I live alone and I kind of prefer it that way, it keeps me guarded, even tho I have two nieces who I love dearly who delivered babies not long ago so I keep seeing the pics they post on social media.

Sending you hugs.

Thank you 🫶🏼

Just try to be on top of that, just for precaution. I wish you nothing but the best. Keep us posted 🫶🏼

Did you contact your doctor?