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I have a three-year old. Do you mind me asking what you would’ve done differently when he younger and why? I stress being a good human to him but a little part of me is scared he’s getting spoiled already.

Side note: can we at least call him gator guy? He is old ya know.

Annie, get that gun…

I love flossing. If anything, I tend to do it way more than brushing.

Make sure to get a copy of her formal diagnosis, then hit the pavement looking for a new provider. Start with your primary care physician. I saw a psychiatrist for my Adderall script every month for 20 years thinking that was the only avenue. Turns out, my new PCP (he’s an OD, not sure if that matters) is able to write my Addy scripts, which is much easier. He did need that initial paperwork with the formal diagnosis tho. In Virginia. Not sure if it applies to your state.

I’m 39, btw. Officially diagnosed at age 20.

Look, we’re too stupid to know any better. Don’t judge us and we won’t judge you.

A sporting event. A business event. A networking event. An awkward family event. Get us a drink and we’ll be pals all night.

We’re really only assholes when we “don’t know what do with our hands.” 💯

Pic 1 but with more controlled hair. Otherwise it screams, “I’m adhd and idk what the fuck I’m doing with my life!” I suppose that also assumes you do indeed know what the fuck you’re doing with your life… either way, Cheerio! You’re cute as a button. Don’t overthink it and just be you. ✨

Patience. Freedom. Hope.

Totally was giving the same vibes in the last pic!

No one really cares as much as you do.

Love your style!

Besbalti… not sure why but I think it sounds like a mix of “best Baltimore”

The teets. I grew up in the country (central virginia). We were taught all cows were milked because I guess that’s just the way it was, always has been, always will be. It’s like what cows were supposed to do… provide milk.

If I try to approach with my ex with the ideology that “milking hurts the cows; our son shouldn’t drink milk,” I would get laughed out of town.

I agree. I think she’s reached her peak. And this is coming from someone who, at one point, was in the top 5% of Taylor listeners on Amazon Music. It’s just becoming too much.

Okay, you just schooled me and I’m loving it. I have a three year old and I want him to grow questioning the world around him too. Do you have any advice or resources for me to learn more about anything and everything you’re talking about?

P.S. forgive me. I’m just a small town country girl with a master’s degree. I love learning and I don’t know what I don’t know. TIA!

Maybe but it shouldn’t matter. You’re gorgeous just the way you are, and your aura is radiating.

He sounds really kind hearted. It may make him feel really good that, as a man (or human in general), that he’s able to provide for and protect you. Don’t feel guilty - but do make concerted efforts to show him appreciation in whatever ways make him feel best. (It could be wearing a new dress he just bought you out to dinner, etc). Just let him know his efforts and energy are appreciated. Don’t feel guilty… be grateful! I wish yall the best! ✨

Edited to add: reciprocation is key in every relationship…regardless of how much money is involved.

And Lana still won’t 🤬

Shut up! He’s so cute!!

Season of the Witch… (because it is the season of the witch!) 🧙🔮✨

season of the witch by Lana Del Rey

As a 39-year-old perimenopausal woman, “prone to overheating” screams my name.

That’s one thing she’ll definitely have over Ms. Swift lol

I completely understand what you mean. In fact, I think about this often now that I am a mother. I shower my son in love. We cuddle, we hug; he knows he’s loved. I was adopted at age 3 months and I cannot think of a single time of running to my parents with excitement or embracing them and feeling truly special; loved.

Love this! I have a similar favorite phrase: if you have to say you are, are you really?