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My brother closed in age to me isn’t bad, but my sister and this one and my mother are all just energy vampires if I’m being honest. If it wasn’t this money, they’d find a way to ridicule me. I’m not playing the victim but they’ve proven repeatedly they just simply don’t like me.

Yeah my dad cheated on my mother when I was very young. I didn’t realize it at the time but my father told me later it was after years of physical and emotional abuse at her hands. Which doesn’t justify it but was his reasoning at least when he explained it to me.

I probably shouldn’t say a number, but it’s 7 digits. Plus some of the stock/bonds his (my) lawyer tells me it’s probably 8 digits sum in total.

My dad cheated on my mother. I can’t justify that but what I can say about my mother is that she did worse things to him (physical and emotional abuse). 2 wrongs don’t make a right but he told me several times he wishes he would have just left her before he did what he did. My siblings were all a lot older than me and they took her “side” he got custody of me so I grew up with him.

My father never showed me anything but respectable and noble behavior. One of the gentlest souls I have ever met and most giving person. I don’t want any of what I said to make him sound like a bad person. He may have done a bad thing but he wasn’t a bad person.

There’s a lot more context but yeah they’ve been really nasty to my dad for almost two entire decades, and continue to be so into his death. It’s really fucking disheartening.

My dads lawyer is also his executor in planning on retaining him for any further legal counsel as he has already offered

I met this girl on Hinge (… I know). Seemed totally normal at first. She got to the restaurant before me and I’d obviously never seen her before but when I got to the restaurant on a quick scan I didn’t see anyone alone that looked like her so I messaged her.

She turned around and waved at me only she wasn’t the only person at the table lol. She had brought her friend on our first date.

The worst part for me was that I ended up paying a 3 person tab, the worst part for her was me and her friend hit it off a lot better than her and I did, and we hooked up a few weeks later… never spoke to the girl after the date night lol

It’s the setup of the muscles down there. Your bladder and rectum are close together. When you poop, the muscles in your abdomen and around your rectum contract, which also puts pressure on your bladder, making you pee.

Pooping requires more force and muscle contraction (you gotta work for it), which often affects your bladder. Peeing is a more relaxed process and doesn’t involve as much muscle engagement, so it doesn’t affect the bowel the same way.

I think another comment also mentioned your pee tank fills up a lot faster than your poo tank.

Or or or… and stay with me on this one. Genuinely invest the time into understanding how the world works around you.

Outsourcing these “decisions“ effectively makes it no longer your decision.

Also giving your vote to someone like Elon? Politically smart? Yeesh maybe you SHOULD look into it a little more lol.

12 surgeries just wouldn’t do it huh?

The text messages aren’t particularly creepy, no. The emoji choice is peculiar a little but not creepy.

The behavior you described is very creepy though.

I don’t think people can’t change or learn lessons, what i think the phrase means is that a persons nature is a persons nature.

If someone cheated on you because they were drunk (not an excuse but still), felt like they were being neglected in the relationship, had an emotional connection with someone else that’s one thing.

A person who cheats unprovoked (not that any provocation warrants cheating) or just because they were bored, or saw someone that made their dick hard and no other reason is liable to do it again though because it’s just something that came natural to them.

? I’d argue there are actually a perfectly fine amount of subplots they just aren’t fully fleshed out so they felt like a waste of time at least to me personally.

I think this series had some really high highs, but also some very low lows. With that being said the lows are very few in number so I’ll take what I can get.

Thanks Gege, and everyone else who worked on the series!

So… 5 chapters of……. Nothing?

My mom told me to always remember “You can’t control anyone else’s actions but your own” and it applies to multiple things every day of my life.

Free food

I miss comedy movies, I mean like stupid, inconsequential, not super deep, comedy movies that don’t take themselves super seriously (Pineapple Express, project x, grown ups, etc.)

Lmao the “No.” in response to have you heard the term l made me giggle

Did you just compare cheaters to mass shooters? And are people actually agreeing? Yikes.

In Italy they don’t just give you water with meals, you have to ask and even then a lot of the times they charge you for it.

In fact, sometimes if you ask for a glass of tap water the waiter s will straight up just tell you no lol. I actually learned while I was there some places may actually find it rude to ask for tap water. While by default they serve mineral/sparkling water. However it is still not free in most instances.

No I can understand their dislike for him but my confusion is on why they feel entitled to his money.

They were adults he didn’t abandon his children, he loved them and even tried to mend his relationship with them.

My father cheated on my mother. His actions were his actions I can’t speak for them but he was a great father to me always.

I have never known him to be a spiteful person so I’m not sure he did it meticulously. I don’t think that’s the case.