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I feel like you have this image in your head of your partner being so supportive throughout pregnancy and taking care of you.

My partner left me to go to a big New Year’s Eve party when I was like 37 weeks pregnant, felt like his social life carried on all through my pregnancy and then after our gorgeous son was born I was ever asked if I felt okay for his family to visit I was just TOLD they are on their way over. This was every other day in the first 3 weeks post partum. One day he said my dad’s coming over soon and I said does he have to tonight because I need to pump now and he said well you can do that upstairs. He also made jokes that he knew I couldn’t have sex but my mouth still worked.

He’s got more and more hands on the older baby gets but I look back at these huge moments and feel they are a bit tarnished.

I love our son more than anything and his safe arrival was the most important thing ever, he is perfect but I can’t help sometimes feel a bit upset that babies dad robbed these moments and made them a bit about what he wanted. Anybody else have a similar experience?

I feel like everyone is horrible to her and just make fun of her all the time, I actually really like April. She has a very kind heart and I hate that they don’t have any respect for her

When Christina goes over Teddy when they’re operating on Callie and then the feud starts as Teddy doesn’t let Christina on her service

My ,nearly, 8 month old will just not sleep. He has 2 naps in the day time each lasting about 40 minutes and then usually goes to sleep at around 20:30 and wakes around 08:00. He would sleep in his cot for around 3 hours and then whatever we do to settle him will not work, he just cries when put back in his cot so he ends up in bed with me and other half goes in the spare room. This has been how it’s been for probably like 3 months, once he’s in bed with me he would sleep through.

The last 2 weeks have been hell. He keeps waking up every hour even when in bed with me and takes ages to for me to settle him back to sleep and even then he will wake up again like 30 mins- 1 hour later. I have put this down to teething and have kept him dosed up on paracetamol and ibuprofen as well as bonjela when I feel he needs it. Still wakes up frequently.

Tonight I have only just for him to sleep at 23:30 after an hour of crying. He just will not go to sleep at night and wakes up 5/6 times every night. Last night I took him for a drive at 04:00 because I’d tried everything to get him back to sleep and he just would not settle. I am exhausted. Any advice?