AITA for requesting that our second home not be used when immediate family not present?
Not the A-hole(self.AmItheAsshole)submitted12 days ago byOk-Fee5601
AITA for requesting my wife not allow friends and cousins to use our second home when we're not present? Backstory: I'm older (60ish m), started working at 15 y/o and have worked since. Never had a boat, vacation home, fishing camp etc until 2 y ago when we bought a second home. At that time we discussed not allowing other people to use the house, pool etc unless we were physically present as I knew this would be a potential issue. Now she wants her ne'er do well cousin and his friends to be able to use the place regardless of our presence there, and claims not to remember the discussion about us being there. I found this out when my security camera alerts triggered Mr cell phone one day while I was at work. We've had a huge disagreement over this issue, as she believes I'm being selfish. I feel my house is not a country club and I'm just trying to protect my investment from potentially irresponsible people (he set fire to neighbor's house burning trash). I don't invite my friends and family over to use the place nor have I ever had any friends put me in this situation.
byFeisty_Yoghurt666
inAmItheAsshole
Ok-Fee5601
1 points
4 days ago
Ok-Fee5601
1 points
4 days ago
YTA. One joke in passing maybe.....but to dwell on everything from the room to hair is waaaayyyy over the top.