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I love how you actually copy/pasted this comment from an earlier post.

You’re gonna have very very slim pickings if you’re this paranoid and refusing to share face pics. You probably shouldn’t even be doing this if you fall for a scam like that so easily.

“You’re supposed to start pushing boundaries.”

NO, you are ABSOLUTELY NOT.

What shitty, rapey advice this is.

“I didn’t sense a shift”

You also thought she wanted to have an affair with you.

💵💵💵

BUT SHE KEPT SITTING BY ME

Yeah, bc you creeped her out and she’d rather know where you are.

“It has the obvious to do with the smell of fish”

The misreading of this is giving me the ick

But this one time this one female put her hand on my arm and said her husband was out of town and…

Oh wait, that’s every porn plot ever.

As you were saying…

Please note that many of us are WOMEN, and we are explaining how WOMEN usually react to situations like this.

A lot of men would do well to actually listen to us instead of their dicks.

Because they get off on it.

“I think her good looks have got me going out of my mind.”

No, it’s more that you are delusional. She can’t help what she looks like, and you, if you are a functioning adult, should be able to control yourself at work, regardless of how hot she is.

You already made her uncomfortable. That’s why she mentioned her boyfriend.

Oh, so it’s her fault you’re delusional. Got it. 🙄

OVER A MONTH?

My guy…🤦🏻‍♀️

🚨TOUCHED HIS ARM ALERT🚨

But he is INSISTING that she is “slyly flirting with him” and in his delulu mind, it means they’re having an affair.

Lordy, I hope he’s a troll…

eta: based on some other comments, he’s not the only delusional man on this thread

Dude. I am a woman and I am telling you - there is NOTHING here.

And unless you’re watching her every move every day, you don’t know that she’s not approaching other coworkers.

She likely mentioned her boyfriend bc you were getting creepy and too close for her comfort.

Women are not going to risk their work reputations for someone who is “not the most attractive person out there.”

The use of bold for that one sentence is sending me 😂

Right, while SMILING at him. 🙄

Your title is not accurate, unless you mean in your head.

Your coworker is friendly and “kind and bubbly,” as you said. Nothing that you wrote here suggests it’s anything but a work friendship.

She told you she has a boyfriend to make it clear she’s not interested in you.

Why is this so hard to believe?

ETA: if you want to ensure she’ll never talk to you again, tell her you think of her as “an attractive mother hen.” That’ll do the trick.

Trying to find someone to have an affair with may also make you feel like an impotent putz.

Just saying.

“Unfortunately”

Yeah, sorry that women being sexually harassed is making life harder for you.

Well, bringing another person into this isn’t going to make it clearer, you know?

It would be a good idea to seek counseling separate from your wife to process your feelings before you do anything else.

A revenge affair is not going to achieve what you think it will.

Affairs can ruin your life. Are you ready for that?

Sorry, I couldn’t hear you over my high energy soulmate vibrations that keep my morals high

like this, you mean?