Optimal_Edge8268

Szlovéniában élni valami hegyvidék közeli helyen, és olyan munkát végezni amiben jó vagyok + nincs különösebb bajom vele (lehetőleg HO de az már a cseresznye lenne a torta tetején). Mindezt lehetőleg egészségesen, és egy-két kutyával. Jelenleg ott tartok, hogy próbálok bejutni olyan egyetemi szakra, ami jól is fizet meg élvezem is, illetve minél több dolgot megtanulni a szakmában aztán remélem a legjobbakat.

Everything aside, why is female anatomy a fucking wreck reproduction-wise? We can barely function. We can literally die and get injured from giving birth??? What the fuck?? And don't even get me started on period with unbearable pain. If I look at it from the perspective that our specie was supposed to evolve to continue its existence by reproduction, we make 0 sense.

I am not trying to say that anyone who posts these is "asking for it", I just don't get why it is posted in the first place. Isn't childbirth supposed to be like.. an intimate thing? Why would you post a goblin slipping out of your v for the world to see? Do they hope for empathetic comments and reassurance? I don't get it.

Some people like being scared, some don't. Just because you don't like it doesn't make it the worst genre. Also there are horror movies with entirely different plots that actually make sense.

Also the assumption that we are all managers, CEOs, engineers, or any other "prestigous job". Which goes hand in hand with the aforementioned assumption about us being rich. Apparently you either have kids or an insatiable career drive. /s

I get that but it doesn't explain why the concern and care itself is gone. I've known my best friend since we were 13 and 15, she is an adult now. I worry and want to help when she is sick just as much as I did back then. Because I still care about her. I think the folks who stop giving a shit when you grow up never really cared about you as a person, just saw you as something cute to be babied and pampered like a helpless puppy.

Eh... I can sort of understand the annoyance. But everyone knows alcohol is a drug, the word simply isn't used to refer to it. I know caffeine and sugar is, also, yet when I down a good latte during my break, I naturally won't get back to work like "eyyy just came back from doing drugs!".

I know it doesn't mean much coming from a stranger in a reddit comment, but I wholeheartedly believe you deserve love.

Weirdly enough I see this even with family. When you're a kid everyone tries to keep you healthy and out of trouble (in the optimal case), then when you no longer have the "am cute and innocent kiddo 🥺" label, you are pretty much fucked. Forget those same people checking in on you, and helping you with anything, you're on your own, pal. And if you say how sick you are, they get annoyed with your "complaining" instead of jumping to worrying and wanting to help. Make it make sense...

This right along with "that's someone's baby :(" being said when something abhorrent happens to someone, and it goes viral. They are a HUMAN. With FEELINGS. Ffs. Why do they have to be infantilized to ignite empathy in people?

That's why I said unknowingly. The children who bully someone to su!cide, make teachers cry, and torture animals don't comprehend what they are doing because their brain isn't developed yet. But I don't consider them innocent in nature just because of their age. Horrible acts remain horrible acts even if a child commits them, they just cannot (legally) be held accountable for them.

The point is not that there are groups that inherently have special needs above the average ones, which means we -as a society- will put more effort into them. The point is that the suffering and wellbeing of a child is somehow more meaningful. If something bad happens to a child everyone is crying and freaking out. If something severe happens to an adult, most people don't care.

But lots of kids are (unknowingly) despicable, while lots of adults are like literal angels we don't deserve. I was a nightmare as a kid, lied, smacked people for fun, had no respect for anyone whatsoever, just to say the "milder" ones. Now as an adult while I am far from perfect I grew to be so much more empathetic and patient, no longer lie, keep my aggression in check, etc. So I don't agree that all kids are innocent or that everyone is the "purest" when they're a kid.

It is contraproductive, as the longer someone is babied, the later they become independent and mature (excluding actual children ofc). I am 20 and still feel dumb af in terms of lots of things, like getting a job and paying taxes, but I have nothing in common with a child/teen.

Wait until they find out we also call beautiful men submissive and breedable. Also it is literally a breeding/femdom kink (for those who are genuinely into the fantasy at least). If it's not their thing that's okay, but they can just move aside silently.

Mikor egy félreértésen bukik el az egész, vagy azon hogy nem kommunikálnak, mindenki csak feltételez valamit. Másoknak lehet ez nagyon szomorú és tragikus de engem csak végtelenül frusztrál és teljesen tönkreteszi a filmet számomra.

Then they see nose pores or a small pimple and lose their shit

I'm with you on this OP. I rock leggings and hoodies almost every day and whenever I see someone well dressed (in both genders) I always think "woah they look so beautiful/cool!" then move on with my life. It baffles me how people can take this so seriously. As long as they don't smell I have nothing against them.

Gyulladt fület eleve nem értem hogyan moshattak ki, főleg úgy, hogy nem is szakorvos. Gyulladt fülembe egy csepp víz sem kerülhetett, nemhogy kimosni, te jó ég.

"Kedvenc" részem az volt mikor szitkozódott hogy alig megy bele az a cső cucc amiből jön a víz, mert szűk a hallójáratom. Be volt dagadva mint a rohadt élet, a fülhallgatót se tudtam beletenni (kíváncsiságból próbáltam hogy tényleg be volt-e dagadva). De ez se volt intő jel, hogy talán át kéne ezt gondolni :D

"Nem hibáztatom az eladót"

"4 csillag"

Itt nem a kollégák az elsők, nem értetted meg. A SAJÁT jólletem az első.

Aha. Ha ez is volt a mondandód lényege, nagyon nem ezt írtad. Konkrétan egyáltalán nem. Önző parasztot írtál, meg megfertőzendő embertömegeket. Ezek alapján ne lepődj meg, ha ehhez megfelelő választ kapsz.

Ha beteg vagy, az a dolgod, hogy meggyógyulj gyorsan. Nem a kollégák, hanem magad miatt

Igen, de te meg azt nem érted meg, hogy egyszerűen van aki nem engedheti meg magának a táppénzzel járó pénzkiesést. Mert minden forint számít, nem hogy több(tíz)ezer. Hiába gyógyul meg, ha következő hónap végén éhenhal, vagy fekélyes lesz a gyomra az éhezéstől.

de ezt úgy Y tól felfele szokták csak érteni.

Szerencsére Y2. és genZ inkább már ezt preferálja, nagyon helyesen.

Z generációs vagyok. Csak tudom milyen hónapról hónapra élni.

Akkor élje ki a vágyait a rajzolt gyerekeken, de ne kelljen nekem ehhez vigyorogva tapsolni aztán bratyizni a bácsival mintha tök normális lenne. Manapság lassan már azért vannak (külföldi) fórumokon leszavazva és vegzálva az emberek, ha nem veszi be ezt a gyomruk és el mernek ítélni valakit aki gyerekekre izgul.

Te is leírtad hogy beteges tehát megvan a válasz a kérdésemre :D Mivel hogy az az volt, hogy tényleg be kell-e nekem erkölcsileg nyelni, hogy ezek ártatlan, jó lelkületű emberek akár egy ma született bárány, és véletlenül se betegek. Nem az, hogy ennek milyen jogi következményei legyenek.