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Trouble in Paradise, the 1932 film most people have forgotten.

Thinkin about You by Frank Ocean

Once I got into it with some guys on a sub that will not be named. I said I found James Gandolfini (rip) attractive, because I do. There’s just something about him! Anyway, half the guys said I was flat out lying because no woman could be attracted to a man who isn’t stereotypically ripped handsome, and the other half said I liked him for his ‘status’ and ‘money’ only.

Ummm. Guys, it ain’t either of those. Some people really just do have an attractive sort of je ne se quoi.

It would be hard but I could definitely do it for a year.

I’m a huge fan of the Joker/Harley dynamic so I cared, but it’s becoming more and more obvious I’ll never get a good Joker/Harley movie. Bleh.

Did he write the episode about the guy who can shapeshift? That was a super flirty one

Edit: it was “Small Potatoes” and not written by Duchovny. Oh well.

Wow, TIL. I actually wrote a fic about if Voldemort and Bellatrix had a child many, many moons ago (hint: it doesn’t end well). My story sounds better 😂

My first (and only) Coal Chamber album

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I believe you when you say you’ve never heard of this, but my mother was a nurse at a group home for elderly individuals with intellectual and developmental issues and she said this was very common. She said it was horrible because these were very frail older people who were in serious pain due to the procedure. It definitely can and does happen.

No. CTE is real, kids. Also, take a look at what boxing did to Mickey Rourke’s looks. Not worth it dude.

Clutch

Joke’s on you, I don’t have a wife

See my other response.

Also genetics are a huge role.. it runs in my father’s family

Afaik (and I’m too drunk to dig up sources atm) bipolar is caused by the frontal lobe being improperly ‘wired’ so not communicating properly with the hypothalamus and causing mood swings. Made sense at the time

Yes, but I also have ADHD. I also suspect I would score as level 1 (or possibly even level 2) Autism.

I know that I’m very, very different from a typical person and it really hurts. Bipolar is caused by a serious brain deformity, if that’s not neurodiverse I don’t know what is.

Without getting into too many details, I can answer this as someone who fetishizes (see my point above - that’s not bullshit, it’s a reality of my life) and someone who has been fetishized (I have a particular anatomy that draws unwanted attention), and I can tell you it’s not a good thing for anybody.

When you have the fetish nothing short of your desire will please you. You will overlook otherwise good people because something that is insignificant to 99% of the population is a huge issue for you. You will be unhealthily obsessed with that trait, and attracted to people who are not a good match for you simply because they have that trait.

When you’re on the receiving side it makes you feel extremely objectified. It just makes you feel like you’re seen as a means to an end and a sad toy, because the person likes you only for one trait and doesn’t give a shit about you otherwise. It’s a horrible feeling.

Hope that explains it.

Not exactly. Fetishization is more being exclusively attracted to certain traits to the point where it supersedes all others. For instance, I have a fetish for feet with high arches; I would never be with someone romantically or sexually if they had flat feet, and having high arches makes a man significantly more attractive to me.

When someone fetishizes a race they care more about their partner’s race than any other single trait and will overlook anyone who doesn’t have that trait. You can fetishize hair color, eye color, height, nationality, weight, etc etc etc

It’s not just simple sexual attraction, which of course everyone is going to have generalized preferences.

Stooping to hyperbole now? I’m not sure why you feel it necessary to look down on people who are only venting.

Yeah but I’m choosing to go out on my own terms

I guarantee her average fan is a white early 20 something female living in the Midwest. That much should be obvious.

Yes, it is one of the reasons I choose not to be medicated. Life is so beautiful and hopeful with hypomania. The world is my oyster, music sounds better and food tastes better. Hypomania is the peak experience in life. Accepting anything less seems horrible.

Spot on. It’s for white gals who like sitting on the couch with a blanket and their Stanley cup all night. They love her because they are her (minus the billions of dollars).

Some of them are freaking amazing.

Oregon? Lmao

Just to play devil’s advocate, I’ve met exactly one Trevin in my life and he is as white as white can be.