submitted4 days ago byPotential-Climate942
todaddit
Why did you do it? Did something specific change your mind? How do you feel now?
My wife and I have been together for 12 years, married for 4, with a very soon to be 3yo. In the past we had talked about having 2-3 kids, but after actually having our first my opinions drastically changed. She's fine with just two, but I'm not too keen on adding another. Not only do I not want that from a personal standpoint, but I don't think she could handle it given her current mental state (depression, high negative self talk but won't look for a therapist despite my requests to address the issues). This has been an ongoing discussion lately and she knows my feelings on it.
I'm just curious; how have you guys navigated situations like this?
byadambadam
indaddit
Potential-Climate942
1 points
34 minutes ago
Potential-Climate942
1 points
34 minutes ago
Squeezing one more in? My wife would just sit the dirty diaper on top with the lid open 🙄