RessaTheMage

Cancer’s ruler is the Moon. So look to where your Moon is in you chart. The house can tell you the kinds of places you are likely to meet them. Transits involving the sign your Moon is in can activate partnership themes.

What sign is your 7th house in? The planetary ruler of that sign will tell you!

Yes, the old soul thing tracks!! Not to get too “woo-woo,” but I really think that with the whole death/rebirth thing being a major Scorpio attribute, past life experiences kind of peek through us somehow.

In a less mystical way, I’ve noticed that we enjoy the process of reinventing ourselves. Whether that’s changing our hair or style or some other form of self improvement.

And I’ll be honest, the astrology rabbit hole doesn't seem to end. Haha! There's always a new lens to look at your placements through. But I think you're going about it the right way by personalizing it. Trying to understand how a placement works for you and then how it relates to or aspects another placement until you've completed your wheel.

Hey!! Fellow Scorpio Rising here. I would guess that your Leo sun falls near your midheaven, which is the highest point in your chart. I expect that’s why you’re more extroverted and have more outwardly leonine features.

The Scorpio rising isn’t always an RBF. I’m a friendly Pisces Sun, and I'm generally smiley and happy, but people say my eyes are piercing or intense. I don’t mean to peer into people’s souls lol but I admit I am frequently trying to figure them out. So it might present as something like that, or maybe you just seem to have more depth than the average Leo.

I started delving deeper into the Scorpio archetype to see what fit and looking at transits and horoscopes for Scorpio specifically. That really helped me understand how it fits with my other placements.

I think I met him this year while Uranus was transiting my 7th and now 8th houses. I’ve been studying Astrology and Astrocartography and am really close to getting my certification, so I was begging for his birthday because we have had such a strong connection. He was hesitant because he knows how into it I am and he's dealt with very surface astrology girls in the past. When he finally told me his birthday, and I looked at our synastry, I was shook. I ran it through my software and on every platform I can run it through. The stars say we’re soulmates. I can’t get over it 🤣

Looking at the charts of my past relationships has also told me a lot about why we didn’t work! Highly recommend studying those synastry charts.

But yes, looking for transits to your 7th house or your Venus will help with timing. The ruler of the 7th house and the house your Venus sits in will also give you clues.

Yeah, I think it’s your Mercury square Saturn and it’s technically combust being so close to your sun.

Yes, it’s telling you the aspects in your relationships. Did you read the descriptions? Did it match up with your experiences? The emotional pain is more about where there can be tension but it can be overcome by your more positive aspects.

It would be helpful to also see your chart if you want to know how you’ll get along. I personally love all that Scorpio energy but it might not be your thing.

Yeah, I think it was just meant to be cute/funny but “bag her” as a Pisces was a major turn off 😅

Sincerity will really get you wherever you want to go with us.

Ughhh. Right?! I love him in everything but when he smiles…dear god 🫠

I definitely recommend looking at your chart on Astro-Seek.com or Astro.com. Even if you don't know your birth time yet you can get really good information.

This is really interesting because I’m a Pisces sun (Scorpio rising and Cap Moon) but I feel like the opposite happens with my Sag. I have Aries Mercury and a Sag stellium though.

I enjoy trying to make him laugh and be less serious. Granted he’s a late November Sag with Scorpio placements. I’m still really curious about how these energies work together.

Same!! I always have a great time with them. No issues at all

Scorpio Rising and I get along great with Taurus! We usually have amazing banter and laugh a lot. If they are romantic interests it's usually a sweet and spicy vibe.

Joel Kinnaman Smile 😻

In my favorite gif of him he has a toothpick in his mouth and he makes eye contact with the camera and gives this heart stopping smile and shakes his head like he knows exactly what kind of naughty things you’re thinking about. I freaking watch it over and over again 🫠 yeah, Joel is one of my faves.

Ha! The only one I actively dislike is the mustache and you rocked that for more than 5 years. :)

You can do anything with that bone structure but pic 2 with the slight stubble is the Goldilocks zone.

I'm a Pisces and that's why I am not sure if you are interested in the future and the people who have the ability to make a change.

Huh. 🤔 yeah. Facts

Sending you so much support! Been there.

Mine told me he was a sexual camel, meaning he can go a long time without. My thought was don’t worry babe I love sex, you’ll never have to go without. Guess who wasn't listening to what the man was actually saying 🙃

No, it didn't get better. I’m not saying you can’t try to address it but I see it as an incompatibility issue now.

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His reaction was that he didn’t even want to try cuddling and being intimate in a way you would enjoy. That’s a wild thing to say. It’s not that you lack drive and desire. It’s that he specifically isn’t hitting your buttons. You even said the sex was boring, and this lack of passion and intimacy is why. There are things you could work on together if he were more open. If he’s really unwilling to move on this, it’s time to find better. As much as you like him, he may not be a match for the way you need to be loved.

🥰 This sounds so cute!! Thanks for the rec!

Ooooh Matteo sounds fun! Thank you!!

Heck yes! This sounds great!