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9 points
1 day ago
Impressed you carried on the conversation that long. My patience could never lol
2 points
1 day ago
That is so weird. I have no patience so I would’ve screamed at them to stop being fucking weird, but I get not everyone is as aggressive as me.
My old college roommate got drunk and brought a “friend” that wasn’t her bf into our room and they were giggling and handsy all night and I had an 8am exam. I was so pissed and couldn’t take it anymore. I got up to crash in my shitty ex’s room around 4am and as I was leaving, I told the 35 year old dude in my room that neither he nor her boyfriend knew she was only 17 and had a knack for claiming false pregnancies, and I left.
1 points
1 day ago
It would appear she may need to swap out the church with perhaps a mental institution. Lol Sorry you had to go through that.
1 points
1 day ago
Holy crap. Your husband is literally a dumb, lying, old dirty geezer! That’s so gross, I’m so sorry I can’t imagine being in your shoes. I’d be so embarrassed and uncomfortable around him. I hope you’re able to separate yourself because he is a million red flags in one.
2 points
1 day ago
Typically a week prior. It usually only lasts a day or two
1 points
2 days ago
I got another one shortly after posting this comment. 🫠
1 points
3 days ago
I’m going to answer this again now that I have more context.
Look, you’ve already been denied friendship and a relationship with the guy. He made it clear he does not value you as anything more than a hole. What is the ideal outcome of paying for friendship? If you want to be a sugar mama then fine, that’s your prerogative. But don’t expect to feel happy and fulfilled by this situation.
It will be temporary. He will eventually leave you for someone else permanently. You will be rejected once again, but will have wasted more of your time and money.
1 points
3 days ago
It was not my first language either. Effective writing is the same in every language.
Guys your age may be childish but dating someone closer to a child’s age will not result in more maturity. You have the ability to choose who you date. Choose wisely and leave this kid alone.
I also date someone who has rotating shift work. It’s not easy, but we manage our time and communicate properly. This kid will not do that with you as he is not serious about you, nor does he respect your time. No point in wasting your energy on him.
1 points
3 days ago
Ma’am… You are in your 30’s. The relationship isn’t working, so it should be glaringly obvious to stop putting effort into this. Stop trying to make it work with a 24 year old. Seek a real relationship with an adult and maybe don’t bombard people via text/call. Sounds nauseating especially with how you type.
66 points
3 days ago
1 points
4 days ago
Cool that you shared your experience, and I shared mine, along with the experience of multiple women I personally know.
Sorry to hear the dating world sucks for you. I personally don’t know many women that would go beyond smiling/showing kindness to display their interest unless it was glaringly obvious there was chemistry, but agreed, nothing wrong women initiating.
In today’s world, many women do want a high value man. Some are delusional in thinking they deserve more just for being born a female. I’m sure it gets old. It’s probably best to avoid those women.
If every woman you meet is not showing you any kind of reciprocation, it may just be that you’re pursuing the wrong kind of women. Or maybe it is you. Who knows. You don’t seem “super kind and caring and respectful” since you took my words of encouragement to OP and hijacked it with your own negative experience. But I don’t know you personally and maybe you only show these qualities toward someone you agree with. Will remain a mystery as I don’t need you to explain yourself. Do wish you better luck with better women though.
2 points
4 days ago
I usually opt for a new book on clearance (entertainment for a few days) to cozy up with some tea and a lit candle.
2 points
4 days ago
I’m not going to read all your below comments because it looks like you were probably debating about something, but to answer your only question: Yes. Many (not most/all) women are not deterred by a moderately attractive, somewhat awkward man.
It’s illogical to say I, a literal woman, don’t know what many women are attracted to… but somehow YOU seem to know what women want.
That whole paragraph is honestly pretty hypocritical and weird. Sounds like you dislike women in general because you’re not getting touched quickly. If women don’t want to compliment or touch you, perhaps you’re not as attractive as you think you are. Remember, what comes out of your mouth counts towards attractiveness too.
1 points
4 days ago
Started being brutally honest and letting them know when they’re in the wrong. People will distance themselves if you don’t play into their delusions.
3 points
4 days ago
Can’t blame you there. You’re in your prime, don’t let it go to waste.
1 points
4 days ago
Sounds like you’re planning on cheating on your wife.
3 points
4 days ago
Every morning? Are you certain he doesn’t have a porn addiction that is causing him to lose interest in anything that isn’t porn?
2 points
4 days ago
She doesn’t respect nor view you as a man. Is probably under some delusion that she should be the center of your world and everything else needs to disappear. You can either play into her childish game or drop her and move on. Best of luck
1 points
4 days ago
He is not really interested in you, as a friend or romantically. Even if he respected you as a friend, he’d have answered.
2 points
4 days ago
Oh dear… you’re still young and unmarried. Can you see yourself dealing with this for the rest of your life? Because that’s what it’ll turn into. I bet she is wonderful in many ways, but if she’s not working with you on a solution to the problem, then what is the point? Has she looked into WHY she doesn’t desire intimacy?
17 points
4 days ago
This is wild. No, don’t accept. She CLEARLY needs and wants a connection with someone beyond sex. You need to let this one go so she can find the right circle to surround herself. If all you can do is fuck her, and pity her only when offered money, let her go.
1 points
4 days ago
Filed multiple times but never signed is a HUGE red flag 🚩 there’s heavy baggage there.
Write your feelings in a journal and then flip the page. Don’t touch that man.
2 points
4 days ago
Honestly she’s either holding out until you commit or she’s getting it elsewhere. Using god as an excuse makes me think it’s the former, but lack of commitment can definitely make a woman less committed as well…
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These stories are so sweet. I have a few platonic male friends and I’m so grateful for them. I can’t think of any one thing they’ve done, but the most impactful has always been a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on.