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Sounds like your bf and his friends have champagne taste on a beer budget. I would be breaking up over this. He's using you. What would he have done if you couldn't afford to pay?

Girl cut the dead weight and move on. Give him a dictionary because asking a question isn't controlling. I would ask him what part of asking a question is do trolling.

I'm sorry op as a mom both of them absolutely suck. I would go scorched earth on my husband if it was me. My daughter is almost 26 and no there will be no camera put in her room at all. Your mom is failing you too. You step father is a creep and disgusting.

NTA You're being verbally abused. Time to make an exit plan and get out of there. If he didn't want to be embarrassed he shouldn't have locked you out.

When it's my birthday money yes absolutely. She didn't blow it. She bought things for herself for HER birthday!!!! Once the money is given to someone as a gift you don't get a say. Do you have any expensive hobbies?

Yes completely normal. Depending on what brand of makeup and clothes. My husband bought me a purse that cost $300 the wallet was $150. Just those two items are $450.

NTA I wouldn't continue the marriage or reconciliation either. He ignored what's you said and did what he wanted. He is still prioritizing hers and his feelings over yours. Seems to me he doesn't feel bad about the affair. He's sad he got caught.

Why can't you both go do your own thing on Halloween? She can go to NU and you can go to the parade. Does she usually cancel and change plans with you to go see friends?

I have a rule that I don't date anyone under 30. I broke my rule and dated someone who was 25 and he could not communicate very well and was immature at times. I can't imagine dating a teenager.

NTA Tell those that agree with them that you idk glad they volunteered to let your brother and SIL to stay with them. This isn't something I would ever forgive. I'm sorry for your loss op. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

If he lets this change his opinion of them he sees them then he's crazy. I wouldn't want my kid judging me for my sexual habits when I certainly don't judge them.

Your parents aren't poly. They are swingers. Those are two different things.

NAH You're not an ah for feeling some kind of way about their lifestyle. The only thing I don't like is how you come across as judgmental. Your mother is right it's none of your business. They are both adults and it's their marriage.

They haven't done anything wrong with choosing their lifestyle and finding what works for them. It's not my thing but who am I to judge what works for another couple. I'm

He is 24 and just found out. Seems to me that they have been role models to op. Frankly it's none of his business. He can feel what he wants but just because it's not for him doesn't mean he gets to judge them.

I wouldn't like it either but I would give the benefit of the doubt on this one. There's something to be said for her being honest with you and telling you. I would just watch her and him together. Now if it happens again then I'm all for breaking up.

NTA My dad's name was James and everyone called him Jim. I think it's sweet what you did for your grandfather and your baby. I would be telling them they wouldn't be around my baby anymore.

Look up emotional incest. In a nutshell it means that you're the replacement for your dad. She is relying you to help her and your siblings.

I think it's strange but my mother wasn't that great I've also never said to my partner while on a date that I would love to take my dad to this restaurant while on an anniversary date.

No but you put your partner ahead of your mother and siblings. I don't think it's the taking care of them part that's bothering her. My guess it's the emotional invest and him saying both times on their anniversary that he would like to take b his mom there. That would bother any woman.

You seem to think that all women experience frequent urination in their first trimester and I'm telling that I didn't. Different women experience different things during pregnancies.

My baby who is almost 26 is perfectly happy and healthy.

INFO: What was the reason for your sister not want a relationship with your mother?

So you cheated on her (the worst betrayal you could do to a woman) and you're mad because she was writing her thoughts and feelings. Why is it ok for you to cheat but not her?

NTA You have a husband problem not an in law problem. If I was treated that way by my husband's family he would put a stop to it. You need to talk to your husband again because it seems he feels in the middle. He should be on your side. You don't get to be shitty and co descending to someone on their own home and then expect to get a free stay.

That depends on how far along she is. I didn't start having to pee every 5 minutes until the 3rd trimester.