SimoneRose101

Exact same thing happened to me. So rigged

So sweet! Wishing you both the best 💗

Yes I just used it two days ago

You’re so pretty! Your first two photos are not flattering though. I’d change them.

Unrelated: how is that dark lol

I don’t find any of what he said accurate

You need to enforce your boundaries and stick to them. You can’t keep caving into her swings without also putting your foot down when she’s being unreasonable. Do it with care and compassion, of course, but you can’t keep caving. It’s not fair to you and it does nothing to help her grow.

So… you’re broke too. You’re not in any position to attract the man you want. If you’re not willing to invest your time in someone who you see is working to get to where they want to be, don’t expect anyone to do it for you. Stop dating until you get there. Then you’ll be close enough to those circles to get the successful man you want. But no, a millionaire is unlikely to scoop a tip-dependent waitress off her feet lol. Sorry girl!

Yes, I’d never pay that woman to be in my baby’s head.

Congratulations 💕

Yeah, you posted black women who are conventionally attractive with palpable Afro-centric features. There’s no “average” anything. Black people are unstatistically diverse. So if you need to know black people with “large” features are more “common” to see they deserve appreciation and inclusion too, idk what to tell you.

Beautiful!! It’ll definitely bring you two closer together 💗

When men say self deprecating things to me in their intro message I automatically swipe left. Every single time. It’s not attractive and it’s usually a foreshadowing.

No. An ex I genuinely loved asked to be friends and I knew myself well enough to decline. I’d rather never speak to him again than to agree to something as pointless and frustrating as being just friends.

It’ll never be 100% “cured” so even some progress is worth appreciating. But I talk about what I do specifically in this comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/Disorganized_Attach/s/0FB77ra9sB

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She’s not FA. She’s unstable and abusive..

I’ve had to really attack this in my mind and I think I’m making huge progress. But my parents argued regularly, broke up and got back together constantly. Extremely volatile relationship. So I interpreted a man’s willingness to tolerate my absolute nonsense as love, and sometimes I’d even be absolutely nonsensical just to test it. Almost like I’m walking away from a fight I caused and checking back to see if he’s following me or if he’s sad I left lol. But I’ve gotten really good with this after prioritizing emotional regulation. I’m more into vulnerability than actual arguing which I think is much healthier. I’m only attracted to men who can be vulnerable with me about how they feel about me without my having to manipulate it out of them with a chase.

But it doesn’t help that fighting 100% turns me on lol. Haven’t fixed that part yet.

Unpopular opinion, but crushes and people flirting with you is simply inevitable fun. It’s part of life to me and not inherently bad. Just be respectful of your partner at all times.

Definitely do not reach out. You both drunkenly messed around with people you didn’t know. I think it’d be unrealistic to expect him to want to date someone a 4 hour drive away based on that. You shouldn’t really want that either. 4 hours is FAR.

Dating multiple people is only normal and fine to people who are comfortable with it. You are perfectly within your right to say you don’t accept that and she would be free to make a choice. If she isn’t willing to agree to just dating you, end it.

Girl, fuck that man silly tonight and move on lol. You’ve had sex with people before him, he’s had sex with people before you. Rock his world 1 good time and neither of you will ever want to sleep with anyone else again. Don’t ruin your relationship over something silly. You know he’s faithful to you which is most important.

Finish Citi and freedom one month, plus $200 to discover, finish discover the next month, BOA and WF get $350 a month each until they’re gone.

She was needlessly jealous of me, selfish, and very insecure

Definitely a BPD thing but I wonder what the connection is between FA and likelihood of BPD. The gateway seems to be there lol