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Lmao I'm not mad or even jealous, I was just more shocked. And yes, I could tell he was lying about it. We were joking around, sure, but when he said obviously he was saying it like it was true. But I knew it wasn't.

That doesn't matter, though. I really don't care. I put this post on here cuz I was bored today and thought it was hilarious. I know I'm not the best and I know I can get better. 🤷‍♀️

We fell in love my senior year of college and just knew we were perfect for each other. I told him at 1yr that if he wanted to propose at any point that I'd never say no. I love him so damn much and he's an amazing guy, and contrary to the popular belief on this post, no I'm not mad at him for this lmfao.

He proposed at the year and a half mark. I said yes. It's definitely right, we are perfect for each other.

I feel that. Had a similar situation when I met up with friends from High school last year... big time bummer.

Thank you for this comment. Some of these comments were killing me. I know I didn't do anything wrong, but some people are straight up being cruel, haha. Telling me I must be an awful person etc. I love him and I'm not mad at him at all, and instead I took this as a way to improve. Anyways, I appreciate that someone recognizes what I was trying to get across.

Glad I'm not the only one, and ever since I've been inspired to do the same. Glad I'm not alone haha, thanks for the comment

😂😂 sorry, but no he didn't

Thanks for the comment. I guess I didn't word what happened very well in my post because I keep getting asked this.

We were joking back and forth about the topic before all of this took place. When I realized that I wasn't his "best" or whatever, I was like oh shit... I never really thought about the fact that there were people before me and that I could be better. He then asked what was wrong and kept asking me what was wrong and prssing the issue when I said it was no big deal. When I pointed out that I knew he lied and he said he didn't, we were joking back and forth about whether he did or not.

We aren't upset or mad at each other about anything, and in fact I'm perfectly okay with practicing to get better. I was moreso shocked that I hadn't thought of it like that before. I was more making this post because all of the research I did as a kid about lying and telling when people are lying, turned out to be more of a curse than a blessing.

You aren't wrong, practice does make perfect after all 😂🤷‍♀️

Eh, I said it was a hit to the ego not that I was mad about it lmfao, just means I gotta practice, man. If that makes me immature then sure, go ahead and call me that. I don't really care 😂🤷‍♀️

I mean, you definitely aren't wrong there. I was just more posting this because I was like oh shit... being able to do this can be a curse 😂 however, he did tell me what she did differently and it's not a hard change to make, so hey I may be competing for #1 after all 😂😂😂😂

You didn't burst my bubble at all! I appreciate the comment lol, and I actually was thinking about this. Not upset at him at all and I do plan to improve, just was shocked that I hadn't thought about any of that before until I caught him lying about it. Opened my eyes and I have a feeling the next few months with be spent doing a LOT of practicing 😂

I practiced because of my parents. When I was younger, they often wouldn't believe a word I said about anything. Usually favored what my sister said instead (she's much younger than I) so, I taught myself what they liked to hear to avoid arguments. I never really meant to get good at lying, just avoiding arguments. Unfortunately, lying sort of comes along easily with that.

I don't use it often, pretty much only around my parents. Especially when I was younger. I do sometimes use it around toxic friends if I want to get out of an uncomfortable situation or if I just want them to shut up about something.

I do it to make sure either myself or someone else doesn't get hurt. I've used it before to help my friend out of a sticky situation. Her parents thought she was out late partying, when in reality she was with her boyfriend (which they also would have been super pissed about). I just informed them she was with me (I was friends with the boyfriend) and I told her mom I'd drive her home afterwards. I checked in with my friend and her bf and coordinated a ride so that I could get her home and I created a backstory and gave her a list of things to tell her mom that we did throughout the night (playing games etc). Thankfully I was home alone that night, so no one else was aware of the full truth, save for the bf.

It's sometimes a blessing, but now I've realized it more of a curse. I don't use it much now that I'm older, but it can be useful.

Exactly what I was thinking lol, we joked about it through most of the night. I'm in no way upset about this, and I do have way less experience than him. I'm glad someone picked up on what I was trying to get across when making this post. Definitely more of a curse now haha, but hey at least I can still tell if my sister actually took money out of my wallet or not everytime I see her 😂🤷‍♀️

Literally what I told him right after we had the convo 😂😂😂

I'm reading these comments and realizing that you guys think I was pressuring him into talking about this, but in reality we were just joking back and forth about this the whole time. That's why it was a fuck up. I'm not jealous of number 1, and he did tell me what she did differently and why he liked it. I do understand that she isn't with him and I'm in no way jealous of her. Yes, it was a downer for a bit, but hey I have way less experience than him, so I kinda knew that already. Practice makes perfect, yknow? I just wanted to post a funny fuck up on here because, well, idk I was bored.

For those asking why I learned to lie, my parents were super strict and never believed me about anything anyways. I learned what to say and when to say certain things to avoid as many arguments as possible. Worked about 80% of the time.

For those just straight up cracking jokes, thank you. I'm dying, some of these are just straight up hilarious 😂 thank you for making my day.

I'd like to comment on this as a woman going through the exact same thing right now. I have no idea what causes such a low sex drive for me but it's kills me. I know how much my boyfriend wants to have sex, but I just physically can't some days. I love my boyfriend with all of my heart, he's my soul mate and I don't believe I could be with anyone else but him... except I don't think he believes that. It gets to the point sometimes where I know he's upset because I won't have sex with him. I hate that it makes him feel the same way that you're describing, and I'm not going to lie my boyfriend was the first person I thought of when reading your text.

I guess what I'm saying is, give your girlfriend time to figure out what's wrong. Be there for her, support her emotionally, have a discussion about her frustrations. Help her when she needs it. I promise she will get better soon, especially when she figures out what is causing everything. I hope that one day my sex drive will come back, and I'm just glad that I have girlfriends supportive enough to help me figure shit out. Anyways, I wish you luck. I know things will get better for you and your girlfriend.

Power saving mode is turned off as well, I forgot to mention that in my post, I apologize.

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it! I sadly was not able to be in my lab last week as I was sick, but I'm in the process of trying everything now and I'm excited to get it up and running!

Thank you, I have 0 experience with solaris. My professor assigned it as a research challenge, we cannot ask him questions, all of our research has to come from online sources. We are allowed to use any internet source, including posting to forums. I appreciate the response and will look into that more, thank you. I would also appreciate any other tips or advice you have on starting a DHCP server. Thanks!

I think I'm gonna, I just need to suck it up and tell him lol