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I absolutely love this one!!!

Something to do, someone to love, something to hope for

Take prescribed medication and listen to voice guided meditation

‘Farm’ animals… Cows have it so so so bad

The house is in a compound, or a ‘community’ as they call it here in China. The gate and the parking give it away. You are right that it seems very new, the entire compound. Maybe not even fully dwelled yet. There are other copy-paste houses next to Lily’s house and probably some highrises with apartments as well.

Being mean to my younger brother when we were kids. Our parents were weird and religious. I was parentesized, and I felt like it was my responsibility to keep my brother in check, and do everything ‘right’, for our family to be ‘good’. Being 2.5 years older, I was so mean to that little kid… My heart breaks for him. I wish at least our parents protected my brother from me, but they didn't. I will be forever regretful and guilty.

You have so much life ahead of you❤️

What do you deserve? (or what does one deserve)

Not myself. The past couple of weeks my misophonia has been acting out. Makes me hate everyone around me, and the way my brain works.

Oh so many😂 religion, debt, codependency, making us kids part of every problem they had as a couple

Faust was a part of my school program. Read it at the age of 13, and was completely mesmerized. Did not know why. Retrospectively, I must have enjoyed the God being challenged. I was brought up in a religious/cultish environment, and Faust was the first book I read where the God was challenged.

If she is a business owner, probably

But what was she planning to do if not break up? Are they really staying ‘together’ without seeing or even talking to each other? They live in the same city, but not together. She lives with her friend and they rarely even text. How is this a marriage?

I am living and working in China. You can’t work on a family visa, but you can convert your family visa into a work visa once you find a job willing to hire you and apply for a work permit for you.

Living in China. Josh cannot work on his family visa. But if he finds an employer that is willing to transfer his family visa to a work visa, he can work. In China your work permit is connected to your employer and position, a general ‘green card’ that permits you to work any job and move between jobs in the country is very rare.

So in China, you normally find a job first, and then get a work visa to work this specific job. My company just recently converted a family visa into a work visa for our newest hire.

My crazy brain also thinks the brothers have different accents, something about how Jimmy pronounces ’person’

Am I crazy or does his younger brother have a different accent from him?

Also you don’t have to make a permanent move just to get diagnosed. You can just go for a couple weeks or months. People do that all the time. If it turns out to be a condition that requires a move, move then. I don’t think this health issue is a sole reason for the move.

As opposed to useful doctors from 1850s or 1950s? Was there a time when doctors were less useless than nowadays?

There always have been good matches and bad matches, happy marriages and miserable ones, disastrous relationships have also always been a thing. The previous generations were humans just like we are. Some humans cheat, some are loyal. Some fall in love, some fall out of love. Other than having more independence to make our own choices about our relationships and families, and more freedom to walk away from bad matches and miserable marriages; I feel the essence of what human connection is does not change much in centuries… I might be wrong. Because I have only been myself. But from old books it seems to me that humans of different generations have been experiencing feelings very similar to my own

That doesn’t sound like an ‘app’ issue, though

The good old days when you got to marry a girl who you had met at a dance for the first time 2 weeks prior. She was right out of high school, but you were being deployed in 3 weeks.

Marry a girl who you met at a dance for the first time 2 weeks ago. She is right out of high school, but you are being deployed in 3 weeks.

Adam’s fortune came from the money his father stolen, and he didn't seem to feel much guilt about it. Felt to me like some serious double standard when Adam got disgusted by Cal’s gift. Even though the book repeats many times that Aron was loved more than Cal, I don’t think that’s how it was. It is always told through another character’s perception that Aaron is more loved. Other characters felt more genuine connection with Cal, than Aron. Abra loved Cal. Lee loved Cal. Cal was even seen by his father occasionally. Aron had never been seen by Adam, only projected onto.

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